help me, i fell like im losing my mind

[mirafangs]

i was with this guy for about 7 months, and i really really loved him, he wasmy first boyfriend ever, and he said he loved me too, and he said it so sincerely... i believed him. but about oct 17 i found out that for about 4 months his dad's girlfriend and her daughter had been living with him for months, and that she was sleeping in his bed with him, and they'd been having sex the entire time. he's dating her now, if that's what you cld call it, and i know it shld be as simple as that and the story's over, but i let myself fall so in love with him... i guess i just didnt know any better, but i have to see him every single day at school, and we're on the rock climbing team together. every time we're so much as in the same room i get on the verge of panic. it's not even lessening either, it's getting worse. i cry myself to sleep every single night, have nightmares about him, i cant go to rock climbing competitions for fear of her being there and me not being able to control myself, i even burst into tears in the middle of school sometimes. i dont know what ill do when she switches schools. i hate him and still love him at the same time, and for the past month ive been in constant pain, and now he's trying to do what he did to me to one of my best friends. someone please help me. i cant handle this on my own, im coming apart inside!

[Jaguar]

There's nothing more painful and infuriating than to be lied to and taken advantage of like that. I can certainly see why you're so upset. Yes, I understand you feel some love for him, but was intentionally dishonest with you so your reaction should be anger and disgust. Do you really want to love someone who does that to people? I know it's not much help to say you're better off without him, but it's true.

Spread the word about him so other girls don't get taken advantage of they way you did. This guy is toxic.

[mirafangs]

i am angry and disgusted, but i still cant find a way to snuff out those last remaining bits of love that keep me up all night. and i have been spreading the word, but this friend of mine is really insecure and thinks she cant get anyone better. im really worried about her, i dont think her heart can take this kind of punishment