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Thumbs down more then a crush... - December 11th 2009, 11:05 PM

OK soooo... I'm a senior in high school and I have had a crush on the same guy since freshman year. He asked me out once in 9th grade but i refused to go out with him because I was shallow and insecure. Now, we're older and wiser and I have fallen for him... hard. He has gone through all these girls that have treated him like CRAP. He deserves SOO much better... he deserves someone who won't try to control him, stab him in the back, or hurt him. I really feel something for him but I just can't seem to tell him so. He just doesn't seem interested. I haven't tried to hard before but IDK he just doesn't seem like he cares. We talk every once in a while and we used to be good friends but I want to be SO much more then that. I believe i could be what he needs... I'm just to shy to ever let him know. He just recently posted on his FB that he is done making women a priority in life and that he didn't want to be hurt anymore.... I hate to see him so low and i really want to be with him. IDK how to do it. Any help guys?

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Re: more then a crush... - December 12th 2009, 12:07 AM

Talk to him about it? If he confides in you, that's a good sign. If he does, throw in some harmless flirting and a dash of compassion and you've got yourself a guy set up to fall for you.

Needless to say, it's harder than it sounds. Get talking first. If I were you, I wouldn't exclaim straight out that you've fallen hard for him, because he seems to have given up on women. I'd become close with him, drop subtle hints and make him wonder. Flirt harmlessly. I'm sure you'll be okay.

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Re: more then a crush... - December 14th 2009, 07:54 PM

Go talk to him. Now is the time to start talking and stop being nervous. Don't get tongue-tied. He's tired of hurting and soon he will give up or someone else will surely go out with him. So go, start talking to him. Just as Composure said.
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Re: more then a crush... - December 14th 2009, 11:59 PM

I've been doing nothing for a year exactly almost, about two girls I've been wanting to talk to. (one i like.) I can't stand it, and as the end of the year apparouch closer and closer, I fear I may never talk to them (they are leaving). Each day it hurts. You can't be like this. If I can't help myself then I'll sure as **** (can i swear here? have to look it up...) will help others out of it. Although I can't give you any advice, I hope that you keep my story in mind, don't feel an unneeded pain, and please, talk to him.

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