Female Advice Preferred: If you knew me would you consider me?

[ThrashAttack]

Im 18 and i left college last year, i havent had a gf for at least 14 months. I dont have a job (im looking) and i spend alot of my time online and on xbla. I do go out but only for walks really. Im basicly a loner, all my freinds are from online.

If any of you girls knew me would you consider me as a potential partner?

i just need your opnions really :P

[Rosemma]

Yes of course, theres no reason why not.
I understand you dont do much at the moment and keep yourself busy at home. But as long as you were genuinely looking and hoping to do more in the future then thats fine.
I mean most people are struggling to find work at the moment.

Anyway as for the loner part... well Im bias as Im a loner to (as you might know from my thread about it and many rants about it) So I dont think that would matter, I mean we are just people like everyone else!

[love_hate]

Dude, you seem like my type of guy
Really I just want a guy who likes me for me, treats me right and really wants to be with me.

I don't care about looks more the personality and well you're like me. I don't like going out much, except for school which I have too(Oh the joys!) I spend hours online and love it :P have tons of friends online which are like people I talk to all the time...I don't have many friends in reality.

You seem like such a nice guy, if I knew you I would jump at the chance to be with you

Hope it helps hunni
xx

[Florida45]

I would if I was older...
Just if u find yr girl u could go out together. How about going to a bar and getting to know peole as mates then it will be more apealing and they could introduce u 2 peeps

[xxpaigiexx]

Hey Will,
I've seen you around the forums and everything and you seem like a nice enough guy. So why the hell would I not consider you if I knew you in person.
I also like going out for long walks so that would be a positive point.
Just be positive and I'm sure you will meet someone.
Just carry on being you.
Paige xox

[BabyIndia]

Just be yourself, and eventually that speical person will crop up, when your walking maybe you will bump into her?

x

[Singing to the starlight]

Depends. I couldn't cope with a bloke who prefers the internet over me. Been there, done that. Its dull. (And I'm a gamer, so I <3 computers)

Also, if you're genuinely looking for a job then yeah. but it is a bit of a turnoff (I'm not up my arse, I don't need money. I have my own job and my own money and that's fine. However, I need a bloke who's got a purpose, a job, a future etc)

The loner bit turns me off. I want a bloke who's good socially and can blend in at a club or a posh dinner do.
Sorry.
I'm sure there are plenty women out there though

[Om96]

Hey, I'm not exactly old enough..but.... be yourself and be positive, and anything can happen. Confidence is my favorite trait in a guy.
Olivia

[delilah]

Depends, I don't know how I'd meet you if you are a loner. It depends if I found you attractive or not. It depends if I thought you were really funny or not.

I mean, you being a loner on it's own isn't a deal breaker, but it doesn't work in your favour (me personally i like my guys to be social and have a lot of friends). The fact you haven't had a gf for over a year doesn't bother me at all. It means you probably don't have that much baggage, probs a better thing to me.

Lastly not that interested in gamers and hate it when my guy is out of work.

So only going on all the negative traits you've listed, no probably wouldn't be interested. But I dont know you - you might have a whole list of awsome traits that would balance that all out.

I mean my boyfriend of two years can be selifsh, doesn't have a job atm, has no idea where he is giong in life, finds t hard to find a balance between his friend time and me time... list goes on! and just listing those traits, i doubt many girls would say "omg he's a catch!" But what i didn't list is his sense of humour, his good looks, how caring he is, how loving he is and loyal. How talented he is, how he calms me, how he is a great people person etc.

anyway best of luck

[ThrashAttack]

Thanks for the replies

[strong-but-weak]

Will, there is no reason not to consider someone unless they're a total jerk.
If you want girlfriend you do have to put yourself out there. No one can date you if they don't know you.

[thisiscourtney]

Please send pic. (Totally kidding.)

But, yeah. I would. I consider pretty much everyone, but only because there are so many different, interesting people. I think the only way you can find someone though is to go on more than a walk. For example, if you were walking and you saw someone you were interested in, would you just go up to them and start talking? I think it'd be easier if you had a job that would allow you to meet people, or if you went to chill with friends. Keep your hopes up, though.

[DracoriousNotte]

Haha, what you said doesn't really tell me about you, what I get from what you said is you stick to your home and your kinda quiet, don't get me wrong I love quiet guys but it really all depends on what your like from what you said though I would get along with you very well. If you really want to know the answer then say something more about your self like ....hmm your likes and dislikes, your goals, things like that ^^

Love,Scream.

[Algernon]

video game player- Means you don't like being social, which most girls like to have a social life. So I'd say that If you want a girlfriend you're going to have to go out more. Girls are social butterflies.

No job-Means no money, so you wouldn't be able to take a girl out on a date. So girls tend to like guys with at least a little bit of money. Girls want to see that they actually have a future. That they can have their kids supported, a nice home, and even being able to shop every now and then.

[ThrashAttack]

The only girls i know are online and i have a job lined up soon

[Feather]

Honestly, from what you say, I probably wouldn't mind going out with you

You're a loner? I doubt you are as much as you say, and honestly... I wouldn't care either way.. more time for me to spend with you.

You don't have a job? Oh well, I have one and soon to be a good one. Everyone is out of work at some point, why not make it earlier in your life rather than later when you have a mountain of bills.

As long as you are good at budgeting and aren't seemingly forever in debt (meaning, you know how to work with money), you have a good personality, a good sense of humour, and at least some independence...

Even though I don't know you, I bet you are a great guy. Perhaps you need a bit more self-confidence, but that'll come

[aspire009]

As a loner i would prefer a fellow loner as a partner.