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I'm not sure whose fault it was, but... - January 25th 2010, 04:35 AM

Me and my boyfriend's first kiss was kind of bad. Like, I guess I thought it would be closed-mouthed, but he opened his mouth a bit, and I did the same, and then right away it was just like TONGUE. in my mouth. and I tried to respond, but then I just pulled away. I mean, I don't know if I was too off-guard or if he tried to go too fast, but I'm freaked for the next time. I mean, he was totally nice about me just yanking away, but... now I'm afraid he just thinks I'm a bad kisser, and I feel like the next time HAS to go right or else he's definately going to think I'm a bad-kisser.. I've made out before, but just not in a long time, and I guess I thought it went like slower...?

so, I guess I'm asking, is there any way I can get better..?
   
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Re: I'm not sure whose fault it was, but... - January 25th 2010, 06:10 PM

Alright. If this guy really likes you, he's not going to think you're a bad kisser.

Tell him you thought you two were going to go slower, that it was just a bit of a shock to go so fast, and that you'd like a little more time?

Honestly, I don't think you need to be BETTER at kissing. But, it is practice makes perfect, and you just have to go with it. You'll be just fine the next time, take a deep breath and just go with the flow, you'll do great.

Good luck, hope I helped. =)
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Re: I'm not sure whose fault it was, but... - January 25th 2010, 08:45 PM

Hey, calm down and dont worry.
Things happen and you were just a little shocked thats all, anyway he was understanding about it so that means its all fine.
He wont think you are a bad kisser from that, just that you were nervous. Dont worry as he was probably just as nervous as you.
Take it slowly next time, he will probably take it a little more slowly himself anyway. And relax

As for getting better, practise makes perfect :P and take it slowly and relax.
   
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