Hopelessly Devoted..?

[ConcealedEminence]

Alright, here I am asking for advice. Advice that I'm sure everyone here has given at least once, so sorry if this is pretty repetitive to you.

Well, I dated this guy, right? I had a huge crush on him and the relationship ended in about a month. Well, after a few days, I realized that the break-up was a bad idea, even if it was a mutual one. I even wrote him a note back in October, saying I still liked him, and he said he wasn't ready for a round two.

After a while, he got a new relationship, and I was both happy for him, and very sure I was over him. I even found another person to like. Thing is, once his relationship ended, my liking for the other person ended and I was pulled back to my ex.

He's been on a date since then, and is now into my best friend. I can never figure out if I hate him for acting like such a slut, or if I just am in love with him still. I honestly don't know what to do, especially since I can't find anyone to like that isn't him...I feel like I won't ever like anyone else. I know that defies all logic, especially since I'm 16, but I'm having the hardest time getting over him. What should I do?

I know, one of those stupid, "Help I can't get over my ex!" threads that I'm sure this forum is abundant with, but I'm at a complete loss. :|

[gasoline]

A very important person once told me that sometimes you will never forget about someone you care about- even if you find another. I'm in a similar situation as you are right now, and I've been trying to find ways to cope.

I guess the best thing to do is trying to focus your attention on something else, such as hobbies you enjoy, instead of Mr. Ex - for example, if your into art : join the art club at school or take a new class.

I started a culinary arts class recently, that really is keeping my mind of things, it's something I enjoy - plus I met a cutie that's really helping the situation.

I don't think this helped much, sorry.

[FallenxFromxGrace]

Getting over love is hard, it always is. I'm sorry you're going through such a rough time.

Sometimes, there are going to be people in life you won't get over, especially those you first fell in love with. From what I can tell, he was really the first guy you ever loved.. You don't always get over that first love.

Can you move on? Yes. You can. It's hard, but you can. Like Gasoline said, join new groups and meet new people, you're bound to find someone.

Open your eyes, there are some really great people out there.

Hope I helped, take care,
Nicky xx.

[ConcealedEminence]

Thanks for the help, guys. :| I'll try that out, as soon as I can find something to do. My town is devoid of cool things.