Broken up

[Liz94]

I have just broke up with my Boyfriend of nearly 3 months
These are the reasons

1. he was a bit obsessive

2. I love him as a friend not as a bf

3. I can't deal with a relationship right now

4. I really like someone else.

There are more reasons but you get the idea
It is really sad though cause I know how hurt he will now be
Plus I really hate hurting people and Im going through a ruff patch at the moment ....

[justadream89]

I understand. I hate hurting people too, but if he wasn't right for you, breaking up was the best thing to do. It's good that you didn't lead him on or drag it out too long, and I promise that he will eventually get over it and move on just like everyone else. Try not to feel too badly about it. It would have been worse had you continued the relationship knowing it wasn't right.

[losing touch.]

i know you probably feel really bad for breaking up with him right now, but if you hadn't then it would have been even worse because you would have been stringing him along. as much as it sucks to get dumped, it sucks even more to get dumped after being strung along for ages. he'll get over it - and it sounds like you want to still be good friends so it's not like you're blocking him out of your life.