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Unhappy Please help... Problem... - February 2nd 2010, 08:04 PM

So, I have a bf, Tommy, and we basically hand with his friends... Tommy and his friends are scene (emo) kids... And they are older then me. Tommy is two and a half years older (17) and his friends are about the same...

There is this other guy in the gang too- Pres. He really wierds me out. Whenever Tommy is not aroud he gets perverted with me with stupid sex jokes. He has also tried to get me to smoke. So i told Tommy and he punched Pres and they had a huge fight. So after that everything seemed to be ok.

But last night we were suposed to go to a movie. We were already there and Tommy called me and said he couldnt come because of a family problem. I was kind of scared to go without him, the guys are older and they were kind of boozed, but i went with them anyway. I got the seet next to Pres and in the middle of the movie he put his arm around me and I pushed him away and he started to grab my hand and shit and I kept pulling away and I got really uncomfortable so I walked out of the room and Pres came after me. He grabed me by the wrist and pulled me to him and I got really scared and I started to cry and he pushed me and I fell.

I went back in and asked Tommy's best friend to drive me home and he did... He was asking what Pres did and I kept saying nothing and now he told Tommy I was crying and shit.

I'm really am starting to feel like I'm a burden to Tommy...

Any help would be great...
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Re: Please help... Problem... - February 2nd 2010, 08:22 PM

You don't seem like a burden. Just, this other guy, he's being a total dick and frankly, I'd go to the police. It's good that your boyfriend will want to protect you but it's not good that it'll end in a fight.. Talk to your bf and tell him that he seriously needs to get new friends, I'd say.


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Re: Please help... Problem... - February 3rd 2010, 01:36 AM

If Tommy cares about you he won't think you are.
His friend is just stupid.
I think you should tell Tommy again.
Or next time he tries something, tell one of his other friends you trust more?
I'm sure they wouldn't want him doing that to you anyway.
Don't blame yourself for something stupid another guy did.
Your boyfriend will want you to feel secure and won't want other guys making you feel uncomfortable.
Just avoiding hanging out with them?


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