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March 21st 2010, 06:01 AM
i'm with this girl for a about month right? and with all her previous relationships, she has been open about it from day one! in the sense that on myspace page and other websites she has said she is with someone. But with me she doesn't. I first called her on it when she posted something online in which she said that she was single. she gave me the bs that she was just goofing around. and then i called her on again after she posted multiple things saying she was single, (i called it on because it really hurt me) And then she decided to give me the "truth" of i just think relationships should be private. WTF? this really hurts me. hell i even cry because of it. why does she do this?
now i've known this girl for about 8 yrs and we're hella close so this confuses me even more! " One day at a time, this is enough. Do not look back and grieve over the past for it is gone; and do not be troubled about the future, for it has not yet come. Live in the present, and make it so beautiful it will be worth remembering. "
i wonder when i'll finally jsut start accepting myself, when i'll stop saying i wish i could be like that person. i have facebook, and myspace. and you can ask for it. :P |
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Survived the Apocalypse of '57
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Re: why is she with me? -
March 21st 2010, 07:20 AM
Maybe she's closet gay?
Be patient with her... talk to her about it, ask her CALMLY why she's acting this way, and that if she is serious about your relationship... then she will discuss it openly with you, like adults. I don't like to whizz in people's pockets, so I will always give you truth. I'm opinionated, so take what I say with a cup of salt. |
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confused.
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Name: Michelle
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March 21st 2010, 07:37 AM
no shes not! i tried talking to her twice! its like going though a brick wall. it's extremely hard.
but as a completly off topic side note. i really like the advice you give people. " One day at a time, this is enough. Do not look back and grieve over the past for it is gone; and do not be troubled about the future, for it has not yet come. Live in the present, and make it so beautiful it will be worth remembering. "
i wonder when i'll finally jsut start accepting myself, when i'll stop saying i wish i could be like that person. i have facebook, and myspace. and you can ask for it. :P |
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Survived the Apocalypse of '57
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March 21st 2010, 11:41 AM
You're very welcome Emoticon... I do try to help everyone when I can.
 I can't understand why she's being so childish about it... She seems to be playing mind games with you (from what you're saying...). Maybe just give her some space... see what she does. It would seem that she's acting out, for whatever reason... and she's noticed its affecting you. If you give her space, and act like it doesn't faze you... she might realize that she's making a big mistake... and stop it. Again, good luck
I don't like to whizz in people's pockets, so I will always give you truth. I'm opinionated, so take what I say with a cup of salt. |
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 oh, really?..
Jeez, get a life!
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Re: why is she with me? -
March 21st 2010, 06:58 PM
it's probably one of two things..
1) she's saying she's single because she's not taking this 'relationship' with you very seriously and she doesn't see it as an exclusive thing. or 2) she's telling the truth and she does just want to keep it private between you two. ask her again if it's bothering you. if you're crying about it then you need to sort it out and find out what's really going on. don't jump to conclusions and assume she doesn't like you but don't be completely devastated if she's not taking the relationship as seriously as you are. |
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