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Name: Jessica
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to much to handle! -
March 29th 2010, 07:13 PM
Im kinda of confused and this is killing me so am just going to explain the best i can! I have a year old son with my first boyfriend,when we broke up I felt nothing for him, then I started dating again with this guy that was a really good friend he left for the navy so our only contact was by letters moslty but did move to phone calls or texting, well I fell in love with him and I fell harder than my babys daddy, okay well the navy boyfriend broke up with me less than a week before he got married to his ex-girlfriend, and the whole this is that he just called on day and said its over and then I find out from the paper in my home town that he is getting married, so i try contacting him to get answers and he was changed everything and block me from everything on the internet, what I did am not sure, well am crush and still am it kills me inside everyday,well about a few months ago I started dating again and this guy is really in love with me and opening up to me ever so much and I want to do the same but my navy ex-boyfriend I cant get over him and what he did to me and I can see in my current boyfriends eyes and his emotions that it hurts him that I cant truely show him how much I want to love him! so someone plz give me some help! and advice to help him so he aint so heart broken about this all! help Plz!
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Re: to much to handle! -
March 29th 2010, 09:13 PM
It's going to take a long time to get over the kind of hurt you've just had. Best thing is to tell your new guy what's happened and your feelings need time to heal and please don't expect you to love him in return just yet. If he's the kind of guy you want him to be, he'll wait and be patient.
Do allow yourself to get over the navy guy. Allow yourself to be angry at the dishonesty he treated you with (not to mention the girl he married - he was evidently going out with you at the same time he was going out with her, and good luck to her, btw.) Then move slowly to your new guy and let the love and care he has for you gradually sink in. What just happened?
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