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Exclamation Boy troble - April 1st 2010, 04:03 AM

Ive been having boy problems again. My boyfriend and I have dated once a year going on six years now. He now will talk of nothing but having sex with me. I have had sex with others but not him. I want to ruin the relationship by saying no but at the same time talking about it is getting old. How should I let him know I want to wait with out hurting him?


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Re: Boy troble - April 1st 2010, 05:16 AM

Just be straight and up front about it.
If you're honest that's all that matters.
He shouldn't get hurt over it.
If you don't want sex with him, then just tell him that.
Explain your position, and give him some reasons.
It might make him feel better about it, and understand a little more.
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Re: Boy troble - April 1st 2010, 05:20 AM

Could you rephrase that again, it was a bit hard to understand it. From what I understood, you guys only date once a year and you want to ruin the relationship and at the same time it's getting old talking about sex?
   
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Re: Boy troble - April 1st 2010, 05:58 AM

I do not want to ruin the relationship


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Re: Boy troble - April 1st 2010, 08:04 AM

Is this the same guy who had a pregnant girlfriend? I thought that you had already had sex with him?

Tell him no, and if he isn't okay with that, then walk away. Someone who doesn't respect you isn't worth the time.
   
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Re: Boy troble - April 1st 2010, 08:08 AM

No it's a different boy. The one 12hours away


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Re: Boy troble - April 1st 2010, 08:11 AM

Sorry, but if he is 12 hours away, sex can't be that much of a possibility, can it?

But still, if you want to wait, just explain to him why. If he really cares about you, he will wait until you're ready.
   
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