In a bad situation

[ThrashAttack]

There is a girl i like who is a year older then me. The problem is that she has a Bf who i hate (becouse he is going out with the Girl i like). Anyway i just get so angry with it that ive come close to beatng him up becouse of it.

Girls have always screwed around with my heart and stepped on it so love never agrees with me.

I need some freindly advice

[Jaguar]

OK. We've all been there.

Bide your time and make friends with her. Two things will happen: she'll marry him, or they'll break up eventually' and there you are ready to mend her broken heart.

Beating up the guy doesn't work. She just feels sympathy for him cuz big bad u beat him up.

[Lorelei]

Hey Will.

If she does break up with her boyfriend, maybe you can try to give it a shot with her. But while she's with him, avoid pining after her. That just gives her the opportunity to use you as a "Rebound Guy" when they do break up-- something you and she will both regret later.

In the meantime, try casually dating other people (but make it clear that you're not looking for a relationship) and just be friends with her. This girl you're talking about is far more likely to be interested in you and respect you if she sees that you respect yourself. And if she's not interested in a guy who respects himself, then she's not worth your time anyway.