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Question What should I do? - April 6th 2010, 09:33 AM

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OK, there's this guy that went to the same school as me. He was in the same year as me but what part of the "group." He drinks, smokes and I wouldn't be surprised if he does drugs.

I added him on Facebook and he sent me a private message saying "Hi how are you?" Blah. Blah. Blah. Then he asked me, do you want to catch up sometime? I replied saying do you ask every girl to go out with you? He said no only the special ones.

But then he started asking me personal questions like have I ever had sex with a guy, would I have sex with him? Stuff like that.

He wants to meet up with me but I don't know what to do. He comes back from holidays next week.


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Re: What should I do? - April 6th 2010, 09:40 AM

Personally, I think those are fairly clear alarm bells ringing. I wouldn't be comfortable meeting up with a guy who asked questions like that when I didn't really know him that well. It just seems... dangerous. Of course, it might just be that he has no sense of personal boundaries, but then I wouldn't want to hang out with someone like that anyway. If I was you, I wouldn't go, it seems too risky.



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Re: What should I do? - April 6th 2010, 10:05 AM

I think if he is asking you such questions like that, meeting up with him wouldn't be the best of ideas unless you went with someone or meet somewhere in public. Like said though, it could be that he was just curious and didn't think about how personal the questions are when he asked him and they could be nothing but still, I'd be a little wary about it.


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