Im turning jealous and clingy help.

[goldenlock]

Ive started noticing problems with my boyfriend recently, the way we communicate. I really love him and hes becoming more and more distant with me. I cook for him everyday and clean the house and washing.
I can see myself becoming into this paranoid wreck in the future.
Like today, i walked in the livingroom with a cup of tea and smiled at him (he was watching tv) he said 'have you reliezed how much you just walk into a room eating', he was dressing up as well (so i thought hes going out) he said no, then he got a phonecall where he walked into the garden then came back in and said im going to london tonight, friends in town, then walked out.
I don't know what to expect anymore, he makes me feel needy, partly jealous and to be honest a little lonely. Some things he comes out with like "oh thats lauren, shes the girl my friends wanted me to go out with" and "You eat so much, it shocks me" i take to heart too much.
How can i turn this around and stop chasing him?

[ALLorNOTHINGforCHRIST]

Have you talked to him to let him know how you feel? That is the first step is realizing that talking is key.

Secondly, if you feel like he just is not for you and that maybe he is not the one break off the relationship. The reason is if this is the way he is making you feel and talking has not solved the problem there is no point in keeping a relationship alive that causes that much pain.

Like I said talking about it is key however it is important to realize that some people just are not good matches.

[Jacksonian]

Let him know how you feel and how much what he says and does hurts you. And as you love him, you know already how to say it but you must not let yourself be taken advantage of. Stand your ground and let him know what is happening. And don't chase him, if he doesn't want to come to you voluntarily then that's a problem.

[Forsaken Archer]

To be blunt sounds like your boyfriend is bored of you and is going to cheat on you / end it with you.

You need to have a chat with him, because the way he is acting is out of order. Communication is key in any relationship and he is not doing that at all.

You must talk to him because honestly to me it sounds like this is the beginning of the end.

[DarkSeph]

Honestly there's huge warning signals already.

Some things he comes out with like "oh thats lauren, shes the girl my friends wanted me to go out with" and "You eat so much, it shocks me"

Things like that are incredibly rude. A lot of gf's would dump their partner for saying less. He really needs to apologize for that, don't be afraid to ask him to. It sounds like he talks down on you a little too much, and sadly that can be extremely damaging to your self-confidence. Which shows in the way you seem to be blaming yourself. The honest truth is you aren't chasing him too much at all and you aren't being too clingy. You need to have a serious talk about your feelings with him and do expect him to change and be supportive. You wouldn't say things like that to him, and if he needed support you'd give it to him, he should treat you the same.

The way things are going he's only going to seriously damage your self esteem. Have a talk with him and see if you can sort things out, you deserve a lot better. Hope things turn out well, best of luck.