she's moving in with him.

[lorilou]

Okaaaaaaay. This guy that I've been dating, but we're not 'official', is really making me angry. I'm trying to hide it but ugh.

Basically ... he told me tonight that his ex girlfriend is probably moving in with him. I find this super weird in the first place. She treats him like shit, she has a boyfriend and she's currently conflicted between staying with him or having sex with her boyfriends cousin.

Oh my Lord ... It's not my place to say anything, because well, it just isn't. But still, it makes me super uncomfortable .. but if I say anything I'll seem really controlling and stuff.

[AmberS9109]

Sit him down, tell him that you're concerned about him. You won't seem controlling, as long as you make it known that you're only concerned, and not trying to navigate his decisions.

[wonderbread]

It is your place to say something. He is your boyfriend and he may be moving in with an ex. That is a big no-no. Im not saying to go off the wall crazy on him because that will help none. You need to speak to him about.
Ask why he is doing this? Why is he even thinking about it? Ask if he thought to ask you before telling you?

I don't think it depends on how long you have been 'dating' in this situation. Moving in with an ex of any sort is hurt to the other person. My best suggestion is to talk to him. Even if you are not official. Because it seems like if you're this upset and this uggh about it then there is some heavy feelings on both sides.