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Exclamation in love with a guy, he loves me, but doesnt show it. - February 17th 2009, 02:46 AM

okay, so, me & this guy have been talking for like 6 months. he lives in another county, like an hour away. we've planned on meeting before but haven't yet. he's told me he loves me but i think he still has sex and does other things with other girls. my friends have told me not to meet him & just forget about him. but i can't. what should i do?
   
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Re: in love with a guy, he loves me, but doesnt show it. - February 17th 2009, 02:54 AM

I think you should take the advice of your friends. He might say that he loves you, but actions speak louder then words.


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Re: in love with a guy, he loves me, but doesnt show it. - February 17th 2009, 03:07 AM

IMO you should take your friends advice, he's effectively just manipulating you. IMO if he really loved you then he'd stay well away of girls and especially not sleep with them.

Look at it this way, you've never met him so you don't even know if he's telling the truth about loving you. So some advice from me would be to not make him your number 1 priority, and perhaps look for some local people.
   
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Re: in love with a guy, he loves me, but doesnt show it. - February 17th 2009, 03:12 AM

Some simple advice, you can't love someone you've never met.

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Re: in love with a guy, he loves me, but doesnt show it. - February 17th 2009, 04:11 AM

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Some simple advice, you can't love someone you've never met.

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Re: in love with a guy, he loves me, but doesnt show it. - February 17th 2009, 05:50 AM

Even if he did love you, long distances relationships are hard enough. But now you have the fact that you think he might be cheating on you…. You have to have complete trust in the person for a long distance relationship to even work, and even then it is still difficult to do. I think your best bet would be to just move on, and find someone near by that you can date.



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