I agree with Shannon, aside from looking on the internet, there isn't really a lot of planning you can do. Does your boyfriend know you've never used your tongue before? Just try telling him you're inexperienced, and just go along with it. If it's not the best at first, then you'll get better with time.
’Twas brillig, and the slithy toves
Did gyre and gimble in the wabe;
All mimsy were the borogoves,
There is no one way to making out. It's one of those things that you have to put your own little spin on. It's just one of those instinct things. You can always learn by asking the person, "Hey, how do you like to be kissed?" You can also ask your friends how they make out. But either way, if you appear confident, then no one is going to know the difference. Kissing can be really nerve wracking at first, but it can be fun too! Don't stress too much about it. <3
There are some very amusing videos on Videojug you can find here.
While you can watch all the videos in the world and read many articles, the best way to learn is from experience. As long as he knows that you are new to this he should understand that you probably aren't the best yet. It is a learning experience for the both of you, enjoy it. :)
"Years ago, I knew a boy who made all the wrong choices."