How should I contact her again?

[YouHearMe?]

So this past saturday I was a bartender at a wedding party, things were going pretty well considering it was my first time behind a bar since I left for college last summer.

Anyway, at the end of the night we were clearing trash and bottles from the ballroom and this cute girl (pretty drunk) came over to me and started hitting on me a bit, like grabbing my hands and twirling and hugging me and stuff; anyway I got away to finish cleaning up, and I'm kneeling on a barstool waiting for the other bartenders as we're about to walk out, and she comes over and starts hitting on me very hard, like tugging on my belt and pulling me down by my shirt buttons; I almost fell over so I sat down and she got right up on my lap (the other bartenders thought this was all pretty funny). I was nervous so I started talking to her and I got her talking about school and where she's from and stuff. She reached into my pocket and got my phone, and eventually we figured out her number with the help of one of her friends; I turned down staying long at the wedding's afterparty because I didn't know them and I figured she could do with sleep. Her friends said she was cool when she wasn't drunk too, so I figured I'd contact her then.

I texted her the day after, and she said she sort of remembered me from the bar (but the last thing she remembered really well was dancing, which was before she started hitting on me). We still texted a bit pretty late into last night, but now it's today, and I'd like to contact her again. but I don't know how I can get the conversation going..I know stuff about her, but everything I told her about me I'm pretty sure she won't remember, so here's my question:
> How can I get talking to her again, because I'd like to get to know her better; moreover, how can I get her interested in wanting to know me better when I'm not sure she remembers more of me than that I sent her a text last night? I realize that a lot of it was probably because she'd been drinking..

[Harmony♥]

Hey Tyler,
I would just send her a text, saying 'Hey' and when she responds, go from there. She may not remember much about you, since alcohol does impair our minds quite a bit, especially when taken in excessive amounts. You can always remind her, or ask her of what she remembers about you. She may be interested, and she may not be. You do have to remember she was quite intoxicated that night.
I would do the best I can to hold a conversation with her. Let her know that you enjoyed her company, and would like to get to know her better. Say things she'd like to hear!
Good luck with everything

[YouHearMe?]

Thanks, that's kind of what I was thinking, but I want to make sure I don't come across as this overly persistent guy; I mentioned we talked a little last night - we covered who I was and she apologized for being so drunk, and I told her a little about what she did (cus i wanted to try to make her remember that she was coming on to me). I'm not the greatest at texting girls- im usually afraid I either give way too much information or that I'm leaving out a reason to reply, and I always overanalyze before I send anything

Can I go so far as to come out and say that I'd like to get to know her better?

That seems like it would be way too simple.

[Harmony♥]

But simple is good! You don't want to go into this great detail about how you'd want to continue to get to know her. You want to get the point across as soon as possible, that way, if she isn't interested in you, she can let you know right away before anything gets serious or your feelings begin to develop.

[YouHearMe?]

wow, yea that makes complete sense - thanks very much!

[tammyv41]

Try to make her remind everything or you can make a fresh start.