Slightly confused about this situation

[CAdancergirl19]

So my boyfriend and I, I guess we drifted apart, its not that big a deal to me because I think someone else has caught my eye. I've known him forever and he admitted to having a crush on me recently. Not too long after that he told me he found a girl he liked and didn't have a crush on me anymore. I was still with my boyfriend at that point so I didn't care. His sister (YAY! I love when she tells me his secrets!) told me he still had a crush on me nad just said that to make me feel better. Last Sunday I went over to his house and he asked bout my now ex- boyfriend. I told him we broke up. He seemed happy and we just kinda chattered thoughout the day. I want to let him know I like him but I'm afraid he'll think I'm joking or won't admit to still liking me. He might not even like me any more. What should I do? All advice is accepted. Thanks.

[Nicole!]

Well the best thing to do is just tell him how you feel. I know the fear of rejection is scary, but you have to take risks for these things to work out.
He probably did say he liked someone else to make you feel better. It's not a good idea to keep telling someone you like them when they are already in a relationship
If he seemed happy, then he probably still like you, so go for it and tell him how you feel

[Aletheia*]

If you want to tell him that you like him, then tell him. The fear of rejection is many people's biggest fear in life, but if you don't take chances, then life isn't going to be worth much of anything.

If he doesn't admit it or doesn't openly tell you right away, I wouldn't give up. If his sister is telling you that he still likes you, then it's most likely true. If he admits that he doesn't like you or doesn't want a relationship, then move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea, and your still young.

[It's Killing Me]

I agree, tell him. I think that's the best way. It is possible that he lied about liking someone else to make you feel better. It is not very good to tell a person you like her when she is in a relationship. So he was just being good.

And his sister told you he still likes you. If you that nervous, then go talk to his sister and confirm. And then tell him. You have to tell him. He might reject, so what? Move on. He's not the only good guy out there. So just tell him.

Good Luck!!!!!!!

[CAdancergirl19]

Thank you so much for all the advice... it worked! A few nights ago, he called me and we talked for a while. After a pause in the conversation he told me he had something to tell me. He told he still liked me. I told him the same thing. Anyway, thanks so much for the advice.