My Problems

[tommyd323]

1. I am good looking according to girls, but everybody says I do not talk enough. It is hard for me to think of a topic to start talking about though i get A's etc.

2. I was like talking to a girl like we would be dating soon if you don't know what that means I am really nervous around her it was just last weekend she was known as a slut so was probably my fault
but was I not sexual enough should I have kissed her? She has sent nudes to boys and stuff. Should I have put my arm around her and acted more engaged?

3. There is a bump on my chest above my heart like a bone in my chest sticks out a little farther and it hurts if i get hit in my chest well I imagine it hurts everyone if hit hard enough but idk why the bump is there suggestions?

4. I jammed my ring finger it bent forward a week ago and has stayed like that since. It is bent forward when i stretch my hand out all directions like putting ur finger parts out the tip of my ring finger bends forward. Will it ever be normal?

[Nicole!]

Originally Posted by tommyd323

1. I am good looking according to girls, but everybody says I do not talk enough. It is hard for me to think of a topic to start talking about though i get A's etc.

The best thing to do is find some common interests and then take it from there. Ask girls about themselves, trust me we love it If you have any classes together then you could also talk about that class. Really, girls are still human just like guys. If you can communicate with your friends, it is possible to talk with girls.

Originally Posted by tommyd323

2. I was like talking to a girl like we would be dating soon if you don't know what that means I am really nervous around her it was just last weekend she was known as a slut so was probably my fault
but was I not sexual enough should I have kissed her? She has sent nudes to boys and stuff. Should I have put my arm around her and acted more engaged?

Just because she has sent pictures like that to guys does not mean you have to step it up if you don't want to. Just do what feels comfortable to you, and see how she responds. If you like her, then flirting a little and putting your arm around her is cute and can give her hints that you are interested in her.

Originally Posted by tommyd323

3. There is a bump on my chest above my heart like a bone in my chest sticks out a little farther and it hurts if i get hit in my chest well I imagine it hurts everyone if hit hard enough but idk why the bump is there suggestions?

I'm not sure about this. Maybe make a thread in the General Health forum about this? But remember, we are not doctors.

Originally Posted by tommyd323

4. I jammed my ring finger it bent forward a week ago and has stayed like that since. It is bent forward when i stretch my hand out all directions like putting ur finger parts out the tip of my ring finger bends forward. Will it ever be normal?

I think the best thing to do is go to the doctors and see if they can get you a cast to help heal it back to normal. If you just leave it where it is bent, it could heal up like that and be that way permanently.