Errr...wtf?

[Katie Lydia]

Read my last thread and you'll see that i liked a guy, he liked me but we didn't want a relationship because of where we live and we wanted to have sex.


ANYWAY i found out tonight that he didn't like me, my friend did a little snooping (as girls do) for me and he told her he didn't like me in that way.

How can he change that quick? Is he lying to her? Im confused

I still like him and im sick of this happening to me, always the friend never the girlfriend (even though we didnt want a relationship but you get what i mean!)

Anyone shed some light on this?

[Harmony♥]

I don't think he liked you at all in the first place. Guys are jerks like that. He told you he liked you simply because he wanted to sleep with you. Then, did the dumb thing by admitting he really didn't like you that way in the first place. I would give it up. He isn't worth the time. Find a guy who is.

[Silhouette]

Originally Posted by ShannonPants

I don't think he liked you at all in the first place. Guys are jerks like that. He told you he liked you simply because he wanted to sleep with you. Then, did the dumb thing by admitting he really didn't like you that way in the first place. I would give it up. He isn't worth the time. Find a guy who is.

I agree with this. It sounds like he only wanted one thing from you, but he didn't actually like you. Find someone decent and who doesn't just want to get in your pants.

[Katie Lydia]

I understand what your saying but he's not that kind of guy, he's not cocky or full of himself, we mutually decided on sex, i initiated it but then realised i was on my period at the time. He has told two people that he liked me but then tonight it's changed, im talking to him right now as we both can't sleep and we're just talking normally. I don't get it?

[Harmony♥]

Originally Posted by Katie Lydia

I understand what your saying but he's not that kind of guy, he's not cocky or full of himself, we mutually decided on sex, i initiated it but then realised i was on my period at the time. He has told two people that he liked me but then tonight it's changed, im talking to him right now as we both can't sleep and we're just talking normally. I don't get it?

Just because he doesn't seem like that guy, doesn't mean he isn't THAT guy. Maybe you could ask him about it? It would give you closure. It could turn out that he didn't say that afterall, and your friend was just lying.

[Katie Lydia]

Originally Posted by ShannonPants

Just because he doesn't seem like that guy, doesn't mean he isn't THAT guy. Maybe you could ask him about it? It would give you closure. It could turn out that he didn't say that afterall, and your friend was just lying.

How do i bring that up? We're talking right now and talking rubbish, how can i turn that into a serious talk? Im useless when it comes to things like this lol.

[Silhouette]

Just say something like "Can I ask you something?" Or anything along those lines. Then just bring up the question. It could be he did like you, but his feelings just faded. The only way to know for sure is to ask him directly.