Enjoying keeping it quiet...

[justfallinginlove]

So I'm dating my ex...I know, I know. An ex is an ex for a reason but believe it or not, he has changed. We broke up because he couldn't commit. Well now he's the one wanting commitment. Let me elaborate...

We are dating in secret. Nobody knows but us. You would think people would have figured it out by now. We're all touchy feely (that term is creepy...) and flirt alot. Today, it was so funny, he picked me up (fireman style or something he said?) and was like carrying me around it was really funny and adorable. And at a party over the weekend we danced together and had cute little moments.

Originally I wanted it like this because I was afraid history would repeat but now I'm just enjoying not having people in my business. Ya know, the usual "Hows ur boyyyfriendd ))" questions that are so obnoxious. And as much as I hate too admit, I like not having people judge us for dating again, ya know? EDIT: I also wanted to add that the one downside to us being quiet is that there's this girl that flirts with him constantly and it just bugs me cause it's not like I can say anything. Also to add, he's fine with keeping it quiet too. I made sure he didn't mind first. But he's asked me a few times now when it can be official/public.

So to get to the questions. How do I keep it like this for awhile without upsetting him? How long can I reasonably keep it this way? When I finally do let it get out, how do I do that gracefully? And how do I avoid/control peoples obnoxious questions?

Thanks in advanced!!

[leavemealone]

Well, it wont work if you want to keep it quiet, and he doesn't. It'll end up into a big argument to tell you the truth. And besides, how do you know that people are going to react in a bad way? They could be happy for you. And if they don't, who cares? You had him before, you can have him again. And if you say hes changed, I believe you. Your friends just might believe you too

[Nicole!]

It won't work for long, its best to just go public with it, especially if he wants to. Sure, you may get comments but people will stop caring after awhile. Don't let others judgements effect you either, you're with him because you like him and that's all that matters. Just tune other people out and carry on as you are now.