Nice guys are nice because...

[Dervisher]

they have to make up for not having the size of penis they wanted. (i.e. bigger. sounds familiar, yes? )

Discuss this biased (and obviously wrong) opinion.

Example topics of discussion:
-why guys think this way
-why girls think this way
-why it can be true/incorrect
-What do you think when a guy is nice?
-What do you think when a guy is known for his 'size'

among other things. Anything that pops in your mind really. I'm bored

[The Goblins Blade]

Reminds me of the whole 'nice guys finish last' thing. Blokes like me never get the girls becouse all they want are the populer ones.

[Warachia]

^
Yeah and that's why the world sucks.

[The Goblins Blade]

Girls dont want to know me becouse im not into what 'they do' or do things 'there way' Really gets me down

[Aletheia*]

I guess I'll be the first to really answer the post. However, I'm going to stick with the questions the OP asked.

-why guys think this way

Guys have egos, as do we. There is no doubt about it. Some have bigger egos than others, but I think all it really comes down to is self-esteem. They may not be the 'hung' guy they claim to be, but just as more self-confident about themselves. Sure, it could be disappointing however, that's not the point. Because, let's face it: nice guys don't always have the best confidence in the world, for whatever their reasons might be. I prefer cockier guys, because I know they can handle themselves, won't be seeking compliments and still know how to treat them with respect.

-why girls think this way

Honestly, I don't think this way at all. Nice guys don't have to make up for their lack of penis size. In my opinion, the size of the penis doesn't matter, as long as you know how to work it.

-why it can be true/incorrect

I'm just going to ignore the true part, and say that it's completely false.

-What do you think when a guy is nice?

As I mentioned above, being overly nice can be a problem. For me, I don't like flowers and calling me at all hours of the day just to say "hi". It's just not me. And, many girls may not like that either. It comes off as clingy, and no guy or girl wants a clingy significant other. It's the truth, and it sucks sometimes, but we do what we have to work with.

-What do you think when a guy is known for his 'size'

I usually think they're cocky. But, I don't go for a guy whose only thing on his mind is his own penis, or sex. There is more to a relationship than that.

Now, I'm going to address some of the people above:

Reminds me of the whole 'nice guys finish last' thing. Blokes like me never get the girls becouse all they want are the populer ones.

This is a generalization, and it's not fair to every woman out there. Not everyone likes the popular guy, or whatever it is you think they like. To say that popular guys are all they want isn't right, because it's not true. I was never popular or in the popular crowd growing up, and I liked it that way. I went for the cooky guys, the ones that girls normally didn't go for, because I knew I wouldn't get the "hottest guy" in school. Did I care? Hell no. I think of it as their loss, not mine. I ended up dating a lot of great guys in school, which eventually lead me to my first long-term relationship that lasted for two-years with a guy who was massively tall (6'6") and had hair longer than mine. Was he popular? Not in the slightest. Did we care? Nope.

Maybe it's different for people of other generations, however, this is what it was like in my school. The popular crowd stayed with their own, and us outsiders hung out with everyone.

Girls dont want to know me becouse im not into what 'they do' or do things 'there way' Really gets me down

You, my friend, are finding the wrong girls then.

[Nicole!]

See, guys generalize when they say that all girls just want one type of guy. This isn't true in the slightest.

-why guys think this way
I agree with Shannon, guys all want to be better than other guys. I think society has really warped this statement, because nice guys really don't have to make up for anything.

-why girls think this way
Along with Shannon, I don't think that either and I think you'll find that lots of girls don't as well. Most girls (at least the decent, non-shallow ones) don't care about penis size. It isn't a deal breaker.

-why it can be true/incorrect
It isn't true.

-What do you think when a guy is nice?
I love it when a guy is nice, personally. It shows they have respect and aren't trying too hard for attention.

-What do you think when a guy is known for his 'size'
I tend to stay away honestly because most likely he himself made up that rumor. I wouldn't want to be with a guy who has to boast about himself just to make himself feel better. However, as I said before I don't really care about size so if he didn't make it up and just some girls said so, it wouldn't phase me. I would treat him the same as if I never heard anything.

[The Goblins Blade]

You, my friend, are finding the wrong girls then.

You have no idea how or what its like to get shot down everytime when you go to ask out a member of the opposite sex, i would like to know why im always striking out but i just dont know why. I suppose its me, i dont know any girls that want to be more then the bs 'freinds' tag.

[Aletheia*]

Originally Posted by The Goblins Blade

You have no idea how or what its like to get shot down everytime when you go to ask out a member of the opposite sex, i would like to know why im always striking out but i just dont know why. I suppose its me, i dont know any girls that want to be more then the bs 'freinds' tag.

Another generalization. So, apparently...I've never been shot down? You, my friend, are wrong...again.

[The Goblins Blade]

Originally Posted by Zelophobia

Another generalization. So, apparently...I've never been shot down? You, my friend, are wrong...again.

Alright, maybe that sounded wrong but i just dont know why girls wont touch me with a bargepole. The last time i did ask a girl out i was drunk and she said that she was disturbed, yes that happens to me everytime.

Do you want to know the best excuse i have heard so far? 'Sorry i dont date people like you'

[Warachia]

The world just sucks.

If I act social and never talk to a girl, I doubt that a girl will ask me out.

Besides, unlike you, I'm weird.

[The Goblins Blade]

Originally Posted by Warachia

The world just sucks.

If I act social and never talk to a girl, I doubt that a girl will ask me out.

Besides, unlike you, I'm weird.

Know how you feel, its like when you do ask girls out they just not interested.

[Warachia]

Yep, there's not really any point in pursuing.

Just focus on other things in life and stay single and die a virgin.

Relationships are too damn unpredictable and difficult.

[The Goblins Blade]

One thing i do know is that treat a girl nice and they will be putty in your hands.

[Justin Bieber]

Woe is me.
-why guys think this way
This is the first time I've ever heard of someone even suggesting thing.... So I honestly am unsure why guys might think this? Maybe because kindness is seen as a more feminine trait?

-why girls think this way
I don't.

-why it can be true/incorrect
It's probably never true, unless bigger penis= way more hormones, then that might have an effect

-What do you think when a guy is nice?
I think "this is awesome"... and want to get to know him better

-What do you think when a guy is known for his 'size'
That he probably sleeps around a lot/ talks about his dick enough to be known for it. Not someone I'd be interested in.

[Warachia]

Originally Posted by The Goblins Blade

One thing i do know is that treat a girl nice and they will be putty in your hands.

Nah...

Even if you do stuff like..
-Let her talk more and listen, don't mention much about yourself.
-Help her out
-Act social
-Go out on dates
-Drive her home

It's not going to work with some.

Judging from reading internet sites, you can't let the girl have all of the control and let her walk all over you.

[Aletheia*]

Originally Posted by Warachia

Nah...

Even if you do stuff like..
-Let her talk more and listen, don't mention much about yourself.
-Help her out
-Act social
-Go out on dates
-Drive her home

It's not going to work with some.

Judging from reading internet sites, you can't let the girl have all of the control and let her walk all over you.

Last statement is true. If you let a girl walk all over you, then she's just going to spit in your face (not literally) and take everything you do for granted. I do think though, that this thread has gotten a bit off topic, and everyone should be answering the OP's questions.

[The Goblins Blade]

Originally Posted by Zelophobia

Last statement is true. If you let a girl walk all over you, then she's just going to spit in your face (not literally) and take everything you do for granted. I do think though, that this thread has gotten a bit off topic, and everyone should be answering the OP's questions.

yeah, sure lets do that

[Aletheia*]

Originally Posted by The Goblins Blade

yeah, sure lets do that

I wrote you a message explaining why we should move on with the OP's first post. If you have any problem with that, you could take it up with the forum mod.

[The Goblins Blade]

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[Shadow90]

Nice guys dont finish last. Thats coming from a nice guy. I use to think nice guys always finished last. But I eventually learned thats not really the case. Any guy can attract a girl if he is interesting. Girls actually like how nice guys act. Its all about how interesting you are. And in regards to penis size; please. Being a nice guy has nothing to do with size.

[Nicole!]

Originally Posted by Shadow90

Nice guys dont finish last. Thats coming from a nice guy. I use to think nice guys always finished last. But I eventually learned thats not really the case. Any guy can attract a girl if he is interesting. Girls actually like how nice guys act. Its all about how interesting you are. And in regards to penis size; please. Being a nice guy has nothing to do with size.

This is completely true. Not all girls go after the 'bad boys'. We all like different types of guys. Just because you aren't dating anyone currently and always get shot down, doesn't mean that its because of what you are like. Its just you haven't found the right girl yet.

[FillingWithHope]

I agree with everybody. Guys have to be better than other guys so the girls are more impressed. If he has big junk he may or may not give hint into it. Also, i think guys aren't nice because of their junk, it normally depends what enviornment they grew up in. Has nothing to do with their junk.

[Lars]

Most nice guys finish last because they are to afraid to take a chance. They are nice because they dont want to offend anyone, they have the fear of being labeled as something more than neutral. I have this problem, its no one elses but mine. I hate myself because of it. I want to be the daring one and love and be loved but im to much of a weak willed coward.

[Koharuchan]

-why guys think this way
I honestly don't know. It's kind of a weird topic here...

-Why girls think this way
I don't think that way.

-why it can be true/incorrect
It's definitely not true, my guy is the biggest sweetheart in the world and he's 9 inches.

-What do you think when a guy is nice?
I like that, nice guys aren't always on about sex and will treat you with respect.

-What do you think when a guy is known for his 'size'
I don't like it because he's probably a player who talks about his size to everyone who will listen.

[Shadow90]

Thought id bring this thread back to say some things since I was gone for a while.

Like has been said nice guys dont finish last. Not unless you let yourself finish last. Girls arent attracted to "bad boys". They are attracted to interesting and confident guys. Let a girl know whats so interesting about you and dont be afraid to talk about it. Be confident cause your selling you. If you do a good job, you would be amazed how many girls will take the nice guy over the bad boy.

And remember this about a girl. The girl that picks a "bad boy" over a you(the nice guy) may not be who think she is. For years I had a massive crush on this friend of mine. But she only wanted to be friends. I would get angry because of all the bad guys she would date. I knew I was better then them. Why wouldnt she give me a chance? Well it turns out that she really wasnt the girl I thought she was. She was a really hard party girl(if you get my drift) and she did a lot of things that I really didnt like. Im happy with my current gf now. It takes a while and it can be painful to not find the girl. It was hard for me after all the rejection I went through. But when I look back at all the girls I was into you, I can see pretty clearly why I wouldnt be happy with them.

Now, just some thoughts about bigger "junk". I dont care if your a nice guy or bad boy. I dont care how old you are, how tall you are, how much you weigh, or what race you are; it doesnt really matter how big your "junk" is. You can have the biggest dick in the world and still suck at sex. Cause if you dont know what your doing, its gonna suck. You should spend more time focusing on what pleases a girl then getting into a rod measuring contest like a lot of guys do. Bigger is not better. Its about what you do with what you have.

$0.02 ^

[Dream]

I didn't know this was a thing. I've never heard of it before.

Anyway, it is certainly not true.