So, I have some friends...

[Ooobles]

This week, I just found out about 6 girls that have a crush on me. On of them is my ex-gf, four of them are my best friends, the other 1 is a girl that I don't know. But. I have a gf. I'm not leaving her either. Shes a sweetie , :3 . But, how should I handle this? I kinda like 2 of them. If I wasnt going out with Cj currently, I would probably have asked out one.

So, what I'm saying is: Should I hold off on asking one out, IF I break up with cassie (I'm going on 2 months, hahaha I can't really gauge how long we will be together, :3 ) .OR should I stay friends, and wait for them to ask me out. One bff of them has liked me since we met. The other bff has been in all my classes since 5th grade, and we hang out all the time.

[dinoscool3]

If you're with your gf, I'd stay with her. I wouldn't be planning on your rebound....

[Silhouette]

Originally Posted by dinoscool3

If you're with your gf, I'd stay with her. I wouldn't be planning on your rebound....

This. Do you really like your girlfriend? If you did you wouldn't be looking at other girls and considering who you would date. If your girlfriend found out you were thinking about this, she would be very upset. Don't worry about a rebound or anything like that, stay with your girlfriend. You're with her for a reason.

[how.we.operate.]

I've been in this situation...it sucks.
What I can say is that you should stay with your girlfriend. You are dating her right now and that would be utter betrayal if you broke up with her to see what these 6 girls are like and if you'd date them. I'd say ONLY break up with your girlfriend IF you have strong feelings for another girl--it isn't fair to have strong feelings for someone else while dating.
As for the girls that like you...if you are true to your girlfriend, you would tell them that you are taken. You can still remain friends with them, but I'd suggest that you tell them what lines are not to be crossed (in terms of if they flirt or anything).

I don't think you should be looking into asking/being asked out by one of the girls...you are dating someone right now, why are you thinking about that? Think about if your girlfriend found out about this. I'm pretty sure she would be pissed and jealous at you.

[The Goblins Blade]

I must say that you are one lucky guy

[Guile]

Look at this like buying a house.

You have a decent starter home right now, not the prettiest house in the neighborhood it gets the job done though.

So do you want to risk not having a house buy buying one you might not be able to afford and getting kicked out later, or do you want to play it safe and keep sleeping in the starter house?

Personally, take a risk, trade up, go for that nice house in the cul-de-sac with the big, tracts of land...

[The Goblins Blade]

Originally Posted by Guile

Look at this like buying a house.

You have a decent starter home right now, not the prettiest house in the neighborhood it gets the job done though.

So do you want to risk not having a house buy buying one you might not be able to afford and getting kicked out later, or do you want to play it safe and keep sleeping in the starter house?

Personally, take a risk, trade up, go for that nice house in the cul-de-sac with the big, tracts of land...

Girls are like buses, one goes and anouther one comes along

[Harmony♥]

If you have a girlfriend, and you like her, stay with her. If you don't like her, dump her. Simple as that. Don't go planning on your next girlfriend when you have a current one. Think about how your girlfriend would feel if she found out about that.