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is it okay to not be interested in love? - November 24th 2011, 12:28 AM

I feel like im such a weirdo everybody cries and complaints if they dont have anybody special. I dont know whats wrong with me, but i dont really want to meet anybody or go out on dates i dont want any drama.My sister says that i just hate love. Anybody like that or am i the only one?I once tried to give love a chance but that didnt end up well.


   
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Re: is it okay to not be interested in love? - November 24th 2011, 12:35 AM

You're definitely not alone, I was on the same boat for over a year after a bad breakup. When a relationship doesn't end well, its common to not want to try again. But I promise one day you'll feel ready to try it again. In my opinion, its best to not worry about not having someone, so consider yourself lucky that you are find with being single. There are lots of great things about it



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Re: is it okay to not be interested in love? - November 24th 2011, 01:39 AM

It's just your preference. There isn't anything with not wanting to have someone with you. You're definitely not alone.











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Re: is it okay to not be interested in love? - November 24th 2011, 01:45 AM

Nothing at all wrong with you. It may be that it's just a phase, and that you'll come out of it when you get over the last failure, or when you meet someone special. It may be a permanent thing. Either way, there's nothing wrong with it. I'd be hesitant to call it "normal", because it's uncommon, but if you don't feel like you're missing out on anything then there isn't a problem.



   
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Re: is it okay to not be interested in love? - November 24th 2011, 01:45 AM

I guess you never really know if you want love until you find it. I don't think you hate love. Nobody can hate love haha just wait until you find that one special person that, no matter how hard you try, you cannot stay away from. You always think about them. Then and only then will you see what the big deal is about love


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Re: is it okay to not be interested in love? - November 24th 2011, 02:02 AM

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Re: is it okay to not be interested in love? - November 24th 2011, 02:51 AM

Perfectly fine. You may just not be ready for it or your focusing on you which is actually really good.


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