Why are boys like that? And should i trust him again!?

[-epicfail-]

Okayy well i just started texting my ex again and he says he sill loves me... I dont believe him i think he just wants sex... He told a bunch of boys we did it and now evrryone thinks im not a virgin welllll thats just great i thought...
Well now because of that this boy named devonte always pokes me in my side because he knows im tickleish but he does sexually harass mee. I dont like it. He just doesnt get it... I slapped him like over ten times im serious and he still doesnt stopp... I guess he just doesnt get it!!!! Why do boys do thiss??? Another is back to the top about the boy that said all that. He said that but i still love him too.... But idk if i can trust him again.. Should i or shouldnt i? And why are boys like that??? Plz help me

[Mercyfall]

Honestly, I don't think that a guy that will lie (especially about doing it with you) is a good guy to be with. That means that he wants to be cool around his friends, he is easily influenced. Btw, not all boys are like that. Some boys were raised around strange behavior like that. If I was a girl, I would find a better one. I hope this helps!

[Chair]

Testosterone.

[Aletheia*]

I agree with the first and second posters. If he's telling his buddies the two of you slept together when you hadn't, he's not a good person to be around and/or to be with in an intimate situation. He's just trying to look cool around his friends, and you shouldn't put yourself through that. He's not worth it, and I think you should contact with him right away since you're only setting yourself up to be hurt.

Now, with Devonte, he's probably just thinks you're joking around, and if he's sexually harassing you, you need to tell someone. Don't put yourself through that. If someone else gets involved, like a teacher or principal, he'll see that you weren't joking.

[FillingWithHope]

I agree with all the users above. If he is going around telling his friends you had sex then I would stay as far away from him as possible. He may love you but he cannot be trusted. You deserve someone who will treat you with respect and will not lie about having sex to impress his friends.

With this other guy, he is probably just trying to joke around with you and probably just likes to annoy you. If you believe he is sexually harrassing you, as the above user said tell somebody you can trust. He should not be treating you like that because you do not want to go through something like this.

Best of Luck!

[Nicole!]

Definitely don't believe him when he says he still loves you, he shouldn't have lied about you two having sex, that was just to seem cool to his buddies. You can't really trust someone who will use you to make themselves seem cool.

[-epicfail-]

Wow. Thanks everyone. I now know what to do. I hope i find the right one and he doesnt lie about shiz like that!! Thanks eeveryone for helping me!!