Help getting to know her

[ronymajani]

Well his the sequel of my story:
I didn't really do anythin but ask her for lunch in a polite way but she had plans with her friends so I said maybe another time , anyway the thing is she doesn't hate me and she's neutral , but I want to get to know her better so to all those readers: how or what should i do to get to know her better like talk to her or call her etc...
Please keep in mind that she is in my class and lives one street away from me (this could help narrow down your thoughts and suggestions).

[Aletheia*]

Try adding her on Facebook first before you go asking for her phone number. It's great that she's neutral to the situation, and it's unfortunate she had plans with her friends, but you want to take things slowly. Remember, you two barely know each other, and starting with Facebook is your best bet. From there, you could get to know her and then, ask for her phone number. You don't want to come off as too needy, or weird by asking her so soon.

[ronymajani]

I have her on Facebook and I have her phone cause since it's private school and here in my school we are very few students so taking her num is simple by asking her so if I want to ask what homework is due for 2moro n stuff.

[FillingWithHope]

That is a good idea to ask her for the homework. It is hard to get to know somebody espically if you have developing feelings for this person. Another suggestion you can do is maybe ask her for homework help when you need it. This way you may be able to meet outside of school and have it just be the two of you, yes you will be working on homework but this way it may not feel pressured. I have read the above user and Facebook is another good way because it takes the pressure of face to face contact with each other. Chat her sometime when shes online and start up a normal conversation. It can be about anything, school, family, friends etc. Try not to get too personal with her though until you two become closer. Best of Luck!

[ronymajani]

Originally Posted by augustanagirl94

That is a good idea to ask her for the homework. It is hard to get to know somebody espically if you have developing feelings for this person. Another suggestion you can do is maybe ask her for homework help when you need it. This way you may be able to meet outside of school and have it just be the two of you, yes you will be working on homework but this way it may not feel pressured. I have read the above user and Facebook is another good way because it takes the pressure of face to face contact with each other. Chat her sometime when shes online and start up a normal conversation. It can be about anything, school, family, friends etc. Try not to get too personal with her though until you two become closer. Best of Luck!

But the thing is that I'm 10x smarter and she knows it. In all subjects no exceptions but maybe for an art project or something I could ask for her help.
And in another thread where Zelephobia (shannon pants) said don't waste my time, I object cause you'll never know till you try and I didn't say she aint my type I said I think but I don't know yet but anyway for now I'll only focus on befriending her though what are nice or interesting things to talk about???

[Nicole!]

Originally Posted by ronymajani

for now I'll only focus on befriending her though what are nice or interesting things to talk about???

Find something you two have in common and go from there. If you both have knowledge about what you're talking about then its easier for you both to contribute to the conversation. Asking her about herself is a good idea too, because everyone loves talking about themselves and then you can get to know her better.

[Chris.]

I agree with some of the other comments.

Start talking to her in class alittle, maybe add her on facebook or another website. Talk to her alittle by alittle.

NOTE: Do not over do it! Talk alittle! Dont toss yourself at her and expect her to catch you.

Once you start talking to her, SLOWLY add on to it each time. Get her number, talk to her, maybe a few weeks later then ask her to go somewhere with you.

The key here is to do this slowly and take your time!