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So my phone just rang so I answered it and it was a girl. She asked if it was me, so I said yes. And then she said.

'Why would you send your boyfriend a picture of your hairy nasty pussy?'

Which I did ages ago and I told him to delete it. It could just be friends having a joke right? But I didn't recognise the voice and am really upset.. what if he's cheating?

Also she just rung back and said my boyfriend lost his phone and she's seen them and got my number and she's in his bed..




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Re: I dont get this at all.. its really upset me. - December 2nd 2011, 04:09 PM

This girl just sounds evil. And I'd feel pretty betrayed by my boyfriend if he kept a naked picture of me on his phone after telling him to remove it.

She might just be trying to ruin things between you and your boyfriend by lying about her being in his bed.

Don't reply to her as hard as that might be. She wants your reaction. Wait until you see your boyfriend in person and then confront him about it. If what was said is true..well he's not worth it. If he's going to be spending his time with girls like that, then is that really someone you want to be with?

If what was said isn't true then it would be expected of him to not be friends with this girl anymore.
   
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Re: I dont get this at all.. its really upset me. - December 2nd 2011, 04:46 PM

I agree with Hannah, I also would ask to see his phone so you can delete the pictures yourself too if they are still on there.
   
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Re: I dont get this at all.. its really upset me. - December 2nd 2011, 04:51 PM

Don't let it bother you, girls are evil. (and I am one!) They just do crap like that to get what they want and who they want. Don't respond to it. She's just trying to get your reaction.



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Re: I dont get this at all.. its really upset me. - December 2nd 2011, 05:02 PM

Don't let her get to you, she's most likely after a reaction and if you don't give her one then she'll give up. Just wait till you see your boyfriend and confront him about it and also ask to check if he still has the picture or not. Until then, I wouldn't jump to any conclusions, chances are it's just someone messing with you.
   
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Re: I dont get this at all.. its really upset me. - December 2nd 2011, 05:45 PM

I agree with the above poster. Ignore her as best you can. I don't think he's cheating. She said he lost his phone, she found it and now he's in her bed? Sounds just like some random girl who has nothing better to do than try to get a rise out of someone. If you let her get to you, she won't leave you alone. If you ignore it, she'll give up. Of course, talk to your boyfriend about this as well.











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Re: I dont get this at all.. its really upset me. - December 3rd 2011, 08:00 AM

If she was in his bed, I don't think he would be letting her text you. Why would he want you to find out that he was cheating?
Just ignore her, I don't think he is cheating. She probably just wanted to upset you.


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Re: I dont get this at all.. its really upset me. - December 3rd 2011, 02:56 PM

Thanks so much, she said the pics would appear online but I'm only 17 so isn't that illegal?

I feel a lot better after reading these she was probably just bored, only thing is my bf has a password on his phone that he says only me and him know. Will have to speak to him asap but he's away [army] and I can't get in touch.



   
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Re: I dont get this at all.. its really upset me. - December 3rd 2011, 05:12 PM

She's just talking. If the pictures did end up online, she'd get in trouble too. Not just you. She'd be the one distributing pornography from a minor.











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Re: I dont get this at all.. its really upset me. - December 3rd 2011, 05:20 PM

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She's just talking. If the pictures did end up online, she'd get in trouble too. Not just you. She'd be the one distributing pornography from a minor.
This is definitely true, it would be a very stupid move on her part and she probably knows this. It really does sound like she was just talking.


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Re: I dont get this at all.. its really upset me. - December 3rd 2011, 10:34 PM

Thanks so much, I feel 10x better about the whole situation and am going to sort things asap with my boyfriend. We neeeed to be okay!



   
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Re: I dont get this at all.. its really upset me. - December 5th 2011, 04:45 PM

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She's just talking. If the pictures did end up online, she'd get in trouble too. Not just you. She'd be the one distributing pornography from a minor.
She is not a minor when she is 17, here in the uk if you pass around images of someone under 16 then yes, its classed as child porn. But she is 17 so its above the legal age.
   
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Re: I dont get this at all.. its really upset me. - December 5th 2011, 05:08 PM

Yes but if it's on the internet you have to be over 18 right?

But me and my bf sorted things out, he phoned me today off his NEW phone ~



   
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Re: I dont get this at all.. its really upset me. - December 5th 2011, 07:05 PM

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She is not a minor when she is 17, here in the uk if you pass around images of someone under 16 then yes, its classed as child porn. But she is 17 so its above the legal age.
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Re: I dont get this at all.. its really upset me. - December 5th 2011, 11:17 PM

I shall be the asshole that says...
Please don't send any more naked pictures of yourself if you care so much. There are many ways to distribute content online without getting traced back. MANY WAYS. Just don't do it. That shit can end up online before you can count to three. As much of a thrill it may be, it's never a good idea to send naked pictures of yourself unless you're a celebrity.

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