I love him, but should I go back to him?

[eyeswideopen]

Last Thursday, on our ten month anniversary, my boyfriend (I'll call him K) broke up with me. We had been having some issues, but they weren't anything worse than what we were used to dealing with. So when he just ended it, I was shocked. We didn't talk at school, we didn't text, and no matter how much I tried to convince myself that I was going to be okay, I just couldn't wrap my mind around the fact that he was gone. After about five days apart, K texts me one night and tells me that he didn't really want to break up with me, that he just got frustrated and didn't know what else to do. I was willing to forgive him, but I had made a mistake that weekend before he texted me. My best friend, C, had slept over, and that night I got overwhelmingly sad about K leaving me, and I had kissed her. I told K about that, and he says he's not sure about us anymore. I know what I did was a mistake, and I regret it. K says he wants things between us to get better, but if I wanted to move on from him, then I could. Of course I don't want to. I'm just wondering.. if K wants to get back together, would I be making a mistake by going back to him?

[Masquerade.]

Honestly, the first thing you need to do is find out why K broke up with you in the first place. If he's going to end things just because he got frustrated, it might not be the best idea to get back with him. Kissing C really wasn't a mistake though. You weren't in a relationship, so there's no fault in a simple kiss. Before you and K consider getting back together, I think you need to sit down with him and have a serious talk about your relationship and the way that you want it to go. Keep in mind: sometimes when we get back together with people, the same problems as before come up again, and make things even worse.

[Harmony♥]

Well, she KNOWS why he broke up with her in the first place. They were having a hard time, and he was frustrated. Not knowing what else to do, he broke things off. Fairly simple to figure out.

Now, just because you kissed C doesn't mean K has any right to be upset about it. He broke up with you. What you do with anyone after that isn't any of his business truthfully. You were no longer together, and you felt compelled to kiss your friend. Really, there is no harm done.

If you want to get back together with him, fine. But, I don't see things working out for you until the problems you've been having are fixed. If you let them go unfixed, there is a good chance that it'll be the reason why you break up again later on down the road. So, try to work on fixing those problems before you go back out with him.

[helloovee]

i had this same thing happen to me about a year ago when i was with my boyfriend "J". We started to have problems a bit after the 1 year mark, and broke up. i didnt kiss anyone, but thats not even the big deal. just cause you kissed your friend, doesnt mean that K should be mad at you for it or make his decision any different.
what i can tell you based on my mistake is, like the people above me said, MAKE SURE you resolve this issue first. no matter how long it takes, figure out what your problems are and what exactly you will do to fix them. what i did was just get back together right away because of love, and sure enough the problems returned in no time. its better to take time and resolve now, then double the problems that you have now. trust me!