why do guys just want sex from girls and nothing else

[youllneverknow]

if you see a girl love you why would you want sex from her and nothing more...you don't even have feelings for her so why just have sex with her? she leaves you alone and you continue to come back. 5 months later why you still coming back saying you want sex from her only? you must want something else from her but you don't know what you have until its gone

[kite8k2]

Originally Posted by youllneverknow

if you see a girl love you why would you want sex from her and nothing more...you don't even have feelings for her so why just have sex with her? she leaves you alone and you continue to come back. 5 months later why you still coming back saying you want sex from her only? you must want something else from her but you don't know what you have until its gone

Men like this are doing it because they cant find someone else...

They rely on this person because they know that this person will bend to
Their wishes and let them back in even if it means just for sex. Its a two
Way issue of one not wanting to let go and the other cant find someone
Thats my opinion at least...

Not every guy is like this... The Girl i like and dated we are friends after
We had sex just after dating for a few days. We stopped when our
Relationship hit a brick wall and its been that way since. We are
Responsible and know its not good. Especially if we want to pursue one
Another later...

The person allowing it to happen is just as guilty as the guy from my
Point of view...

[youllneverknow]

ure right about this lol thats wats going on

[Aletheia*]

That's just an opinion on ONE guy, not all guys. Saying all guys do this is a generalization, a very unfair one. My boyfriend is with me for other reasons besides sex, and we're going on 3 years come next month.

It sounds like this particular guy wants something more than just sex, but thinks sex is the way to get what he wants, which isn't true.

[dr2005]

Originally Posted by youllneverknow

if you see a girl love you why would you want sex from her and nothing more...you don't even have feelings for her so why just have sex with her? she leaves you alone and you continue to come back. 5 months later why you still coming back saying you want sex from her only? you must want something else from her but you don't know what you have until its gone

Short answer: Not all of us do.

Slightly longer answer: Depending on age and life experiences, some people are after more but see sex as the way to get it, as Shannon says, while some are just out for whatever they can get. It sucks when you're on the receiving end and expect better from them, but unfortunately it's part of life. The only thing to do is hold out for someone better down the line and not give the people who take advantage of you the time of day.

[Raining Glitter]

Like everyone else says, not all men do. It's about finding those men that makes it all worth it

Why now.... Mhhm well I think it's more a human thing. It's like why do girls toy and tease with emotions too? I've seen the same thing happened, except not with sex, just attention. With sex, I'm just guessing it feels good? So that is motivation already. What happens when someone likes something, even if it's like food, is that they don't realize the negative effects if they don't handle the situation responsibly. If you are gonna drink all those beers, you are gonna get wasted. If you are gonna eat all that candy, your stomach will get upset. Yet people still do all those activities irresponsibly. It's the same with sex.

Some people focus on the sex part and don't realize there's another human involved too. They handle the situation irresponsibly and people get hurt. The reasons for doing such things can stretch for miles, and it truly depends on the person. Maybe the person is insecure and likes having this toying dominance over women. Maybe the person is a sex addict. Maybe the person is just too daft to realize the other person has emotions. Maybe the person is wrapped in so much self denial of the other person that he is oblivious of the harm done. Maybe the person likes playing mind games. I could list the possibilities all day. Believe me, trying to guess why will only drive you crazy and make yourself overly stressed. Some things, the why doesn't matter. If they can't handle their issues responsibly when it comes to sex, they aren't worth the hurt.

I'm not sure why you would ask this question, but if it is because you got hurt, I'm sorry. One of my guyfriends unexpectedly tried to use me for sex too and it can be something hard to grasp as possible, let alone get over. Just remember you are a lovely young intelligent and beautiful young lady that doesn't deserve to be used. You deserve to be happy and whoever hurt you was acting selfishly foolish.

[Chris.]

I agree - I personally look for more personality wise - however I do expect to be sexually involved. But my best friend, is the opposite and only goes in relationships and tells them he loves them to have sex with them. So there are alot of different kinds of guys out there - unfortunately some girls only pick the guys who just want to have sex (in alot of cases they are the popular guys).

[Nicole!]

There will always be some guys like this, who just crave sex without the attachment of a relationship. There are many reasons why they do this, they may just love sex, or they may just not know what they want.
My boyfriend used to be like this, but he came to his senses and realized what he was doing was wrong and that he had hurt lots of girls for no good reason.

[jake_black7]

A lot of guys just want sex with girls, but I am not a lot of guys and it is unfair to make that generalisation.

If I could choose between a happy relationship without sex and sex with anyone I want, whenever I want without a relationship, I would choose the relationship.

I have been in a relationship for almost 13 months now, and we have not had any kind of sex yet, and we are happy with how our relationship is.