why he keep doing this does he seem confused or he trying to be like his friends

[youllneverknow]

ive been talking to this guy since the 7th grade and im out of school now going on 3 years. everything was good i was a queen to him. this year has been the most difficult year. i think it has for most of you people. im so use to this guy coming back after a mistake we are so much alike aint nothing different until this year came and things change from that. he keep trying to be like his friends and have hoe ways. whenever he does something to me or hurt my feelings i leave and dont text or call or anything. he keeps coming back but one thing changed. he just want sex from me. i was so dissapointed i cried when i got off the phone because things wasnt like this until he really started hanging around his friends. he seems like a follower. when i leave him alone he keeps coming back like nothing happened but this the first time he made the statement he only wants sex. i seen him in person many times and he be trying to see who i am with. it doesnt matter what happens between us this year of 2011 he always came back. everytime i leave him alone he comes back. i dont be answering his text nor calls and he repeatedly keeps blowing my phone up. i asked do he want me to stop calling him and textin him and to leave him alone he gets all sad through the phone and said no why you gonna do that? like what happened yesterday can't no word fix that day having a female to call u from your ex's phone is the iceing on the cake i think it is for most girls it was his friend who did that. most of the time he likes to make me mad when he is mad. he cant be bad and not have me mad. alot of changes have been made cuz of friends. been knowing him since 2003 and none of this has occured until this year. he sees im a good girl but its 2012 im not taking bs im switching back to my old ways. he just confuses me one time he say something and the other he'll call back. i dont let him get his way or anything i just dont get it why you keep coming back and blowing me up. hes acting like someone he is not...everytime he calls it dont be about sex. he be calling my phone pretending not to call it and i have a ringback tone and his tone is assigned.

[Chris.]

I think that you need to move on from him - which I see you have been. This guy doesn't need to be involved in your life anymore, exactly if he is using you for sex or other things - its time for him to go.

I'm proud to hear that you are done with his BS and you are starting fresh in the year 2012! Congrats! Now stick to it! So delete his number, delete him off facebook, and don't answer his phone calls, texts, messages, emails, etc. Eventually after a few weeks he will have no choice but to stop - and if he doesn't you can scare him by saying he is harassing you and you are going to call the police (And I bet after you say that he will stop). Make 2012 a good year, and a less-stressful year without people who cause problems in your life!



Best wishes,
Chris

[Brianide]

I agree with chrisjackson, ur life will be a lot better without that moron bothering u. Just leave him behind and move forward to a more fulfilliing relationship with a better person, if that is what ur looking for. There are tons of better boys than him, trust me. Btw, whats a ringback tone, is it some measure to keep him from calling?

[PSY]

You said it yourself - he only wants sex. Any phone calls or text messages he sends are just to keep you around. He knows that if he's sweet to you every now and then, you'll give him what he wants. If I were you, I would completely cut him out of your life.

[Meg Toast]

@youllneverknow: If you keep him around he will just kep you from experiencing real love with someone who's worth it. He is just like a nasty habit you can't get rid of like chewing nails or something. But you will see, after the pain from saying goodbye goes away, you will feel better and stronger for respecting your own feelings and not his.
@Brianide: ringback tones are what you hear when you call and the other person's phone is still ringing. These are changeable now and you can set a song that you like or even a video if your cell phone allows it.