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Question I want to feel appreciated - January 4th 2012, 12:13 PM

So lately I've noticed how somethings been wrong with my relationship with my boyfriend. Finally yesterday I got it out of him that he still likes this girl he liked in 8th grade. My boyfriend is such a sweet guy and when he cares about a girl he does so it kinda scares me. This was causing problems so I told him to make his decision: her or me. It turned out being me but I'm scared the reason is because he can't date her.
I just was to feel appreciated... I want to feel like I know he loves me most.
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Re: I want to feel appreciated - January 4th 2012, 01:15 PM

You're expecting things that he's probably not willing to give. Break it off before things get too ugly.



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Re: I want to feel appreciated - January 4th 2012, 07:51 PM

Brandon's right; you're expecting things from your boyfriend that he can't give to you right now. He has feelings for another girl, and when confronted, of course he's going to choose you since you're his current girlfriend. If he had the opportunity, I bet he would have chosen the other girl. I would break things off before you get even more heart broken.











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Re: I want to feel appreciated - January 5th 2012, 12:33 AM

I agree with the above. Save your heart from heart break <3


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Re: I want to feel appreciated - January 5th 2012, 02:30 AM

I also semi-agree. I think at THIS point in time it is the right time to break off this relationship. However, that still leaves hope for the future. None of us can tell you if he loves you - only he can tell you that. But right now, its apparent that he not only loves you, but also another girl. So the future may hold a relationship - and I'm not going to say that it will happen, but for right now its best to move on and date new people. When (or if) he gets over that other girl - then maybe things can improve - Until then, take a break and find someone who will love you just as much as you love them.



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