I must have screwed up or something?

[2fast4you]

Oh well. Fun while it lasted...
Not that I'm sad or anything. I almost knew nothing would come of it, but hey, I can at least feel a bit disappointed.

Story - So, I was talking to this gorgeous girl. She knew I liked her, and well, kept asking if I was going to ask this "crush" of mine out. I just told her perhaps, or other ways to drop the topic, cause well, I don't ask someone out through texts, and I knew it would have probably ended up in that happening. We planned some things during our christmas/winter break. Well, she got grounded, which I have questioned since that very day. The monday before, she was at some party, two days later, grounded. Huh? A game? Maybe, lets give her another shot. So we thought this weekend. I was here, saying to myself, I will be with a gorgeous girl, alone. How can life get worse? well...a few days before new years, we kinda stopped talking. Okay, happened before, she'll probably talk to me within a week. Week passes, not a single text, or even a simple hi. I wished her a happy new year and ect. Great right? I thought, hey maybe she doesn't hate me...
Well, today, less then 2 hours ago. I started a conversation. Hey I said. She say hi ect. It seems like she started to say quick one word answers to my questions and what not. She never used to do this, but oh well. Maybe she's busy? I'll never know.
So I asked her if still she wanted to see a movie I was talking about a few weeks before. It comes out tomorrow (Friday the 6th). She has yet to tell me yes or no, or other answer. I also said if not I would understand. Trying to ease the situation a least a little. Alright great. No answer...

She is normally fairly quick to respond, and I'm a patient person, so I might still get an answer, but I dunno.
I almost feel like she is playing some silly game, and I am buying into it.
Maybe she is with someone now? I noticed she wasn't with her normal group of friends anymore, and that just doesn't happen overnight. I saw her today with some kid, looks like a complete tool to me but whatever, I don't control her. I also heard her talking to her one friend about how her friend broke up with some kid because he liked her a few days earlier. Alright, great! Maybe this tool kid is that guy. I mean I heard her say something along the lines of "He's that little adorable little kid" or something. Not sure.
Earlier her friend even said she liked me, so I don't think I did anything I normally didn't.

So could someone help me out here? I am lost now. Is this girl playing some game? Did I move to slow? Am I completely screwed with her? What did I do wrong? I really have no clue...

[Nicole!]

It sounds to me that she's lost interest because you never officially asked her out. She probably got tired of waiting and decided to try and move on. Maybe she doesn't think you are interested in her as more than a friend? I would give it some time and see if she replies, don't keep trying to talk to her because it can seem too clingy.
In time I would talk to her about how you're feeling and see where she stands. Do it in person so that she can't avoid it and has to give you an answer.

[2fast4you]

Well, I planned on asking her out when we were supposed to hang out. But she got grounded or something, I won't know.

[Nicole!]

Yeah, I know you were planning on it, but the fact that it didn't happen was probably what made her start straying away.

[2fast4you]

Should I just ask her out tomorrow? or wait a little while and see if she still talks to me?

[Nicole!]

I would give her some time because asking her out. Maybe try and talk to her in person and just have a normal convorsatoin. See how she reacts, and that should tell you whether its a good idea to ask her out or not.

[Aletheia*]

I agree with Nicole; Since she was pretty much hinting to you that she wanted you to ask her out but you didn't, this is probably what made her stray and lose interest. We can't expect the people we like to stick around forever, and this is exactly what she didn't do. She began to move on; I'd give it some time before asking her out. You just went through a period of time where you spoke to each other very little, but asking her out over text or a phone call wouldn't be feasible. I'd try to talk to her in person, and see her reactions to things. If she seems irritated, key indicator that you shouldn't ask her out. If she seems interested, go for it.

[2fast4you]

well, she still looks at me and says hi now. like she always has. So I am gonna still attempt to talk to her.
And I asked her friend if she was still single and she is. Thank god...
I'll probably ask her out on monday if anything. If I get a no, oh well.

[Work_In_Progress]

There was a girl just recently that I was crushing on for a week and she had suggested we hang out, but then she didn't feel like going out because it was a rainy day and it makes her "lazy". I thought that was kind of silly, so we rescheduled and I never really got back to her because our conversations weren't really interesting as her responses were one word replies. She was the type of girl who would be enthusiastic about an idea in person, but afterwards she wouldn't seem so excited about it. Thankfully I caught on to that quite quickly that she is a silly girl and never really spoke to her again

There are some girls who are just like that, who simply lose interest right out of the blue. It happens to guys too. Best to move on if it seems like this is dragging on needlessly. There are a lot of other gorgeous girls in the world, not just this one in particular.

[2fast4you]

Like I said, I am gonna ask her the question on monday. I will just ask he, not care what people hear. Worst that can happen is I get a no, right?

And if I do get a "No", I will simply move on. Its not like it's the end of the world.

[Nicole!]

Well I am going to go ahead and close this because you have made your decision. Good luck!