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Confused - January 6th 2012, 07:50 PM

Yesterday I asked my boyfriend if he'd like to get together tomorrow (today now) he said yes. So I told him i'd text him after going out to breakfast with a friend. So late afternoon I text him saying hey. He asks me if im still with my friend and i say no, we're all done. And then he just talks to me about some random stuff and I reply normally whatever..but it's 4:00pm and he still hasn't mentioned hanging out again. I dont want to keep bringing it up I feel as if im bugging him. I just feel like he'll bring it up when he actually wants to hang out. I dont know im just not sure if i should say something or not?


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Re: Confused - January 6th 2012, 08:00 PM

Yeah, you should ask him about hanging out. If you "bother" him then he has an issue because you made plans and now nothing is happening.. Just text him and be like, "so, do you still wanna hang out?" and go from there.


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Re: Confused - January 6th 2012, 08:17 PM

There is little change you're "bothering" him. You made plans he agreed too, and he might be worried that you're doing something else after breakfast. So, just send him a text and say "We still hanging out today?"











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Re: Confused - January 6th 2012, 08:48 PM

K so a follow up..

Turns out he made plans with his friends and doesn't know when he'll be done hanging out with them. He said he'll come over to sleep over when they're done. I ask him what time he'll be done with his friends because I have work in the morning and the latest id stay up is 2am. He says hes not sure. So I ask him id he's going to be as late as 12am because then it's kind of pointless for him to come over. He says he doesn't know..he hopes so but hes not sure. I start getting upset and he says "You seriously can't get upset with me just because I made these plans first." I tell him that yesterday he told me he had no plans. He says "Oh ya..well I made these plans later in the night so I forgot I said that." So then I start getting really irritated and whenever i get irritated or angry I start crying. And he starts getting pissed off that i'm crying saying.."If you cant talk normally then I dont even want to have this conversation with you." So then I just leave on skype. He hasn't tried to talk to me since.

I feel like he just left our plans to the last minute and he's only on christmas break for two more days so I really wanted to see him before he went back to Uni.

Right now im texting a girlfriend seeing if she wants to hang out tonight. Do you think I should call him and tell him plans or off? Or do you think I should still hang out with him?


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Re: Confused - January 6th 2012, 09:04 PM

If it were me, I'd try to see him another day because I'd be too upset with him. Just go hang out with one of your girlfriends and try to relax and calm down. He's the wrong one here, not you.


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