help.. im in love with someone who doesnt know i exist :S

[justanotherwannabeee]

right, i met this boy like 6 moths ago and i fell in love at first site, he is absolutley perfect. we bonded and for a while we both liked eachother but never done anything about it, now he just ignores me but sometimes when he doesnt notice i catch him staring at me and smiling, and when we walk home together after school i always catch him looking back at me.. what should i do? i dont know if he still likes me or if he just wants me to disapear.. please help!

[Chris.]

You need to communicate. You cant assume anything - nor should you just go on without saying anything. Text him, message him, talk to him - communicate. Once you guys start talking then see how he reacts and what happens - and you will hopefully find out if he likes you or no. But you cant just hang back behind the shadows and expect him to talk to you - the effort needs to be on both parts, and I would try to talk to him. If the friendship doesn't go anywhere, then thats fine, you move on. But its better to try then assume.



Best wishes,
Chris

[heather_tate19]

What Chrisjackson said is absolutely correct. You need to communicate, even though that can be REALLLLLY hard to do at your age.

the next time you are with him or send him a text message/aim message:

option a.) ask him if (or why you feel like) he's been ignoring you (I think you have a right to know).

option b.) ask him if he likes you because you think you see him smiling at you sometimes and you just want to know. This way, he can tell you the truth or maybe apologize for giving you the wrong idea.

but once again Chrisjackson is absolutely right.

Originally Posted by chrisjackson911

But you cant just hang back behind the shadows and expect him to talk to you - the effort needs to be on both parts, and I would try to talk to him. If the friendship doesn't go anywhere, then thats fine, you move on. But its better to try then assume.

good luck!!!

[RiseFromTheAshes]

^Agreed

I know it's really hard to make the first move, but if you're in love then it's worth it, right? What's the worst thing that could happen? He says he doesn't like you like that? If so you guys remain friends...just like you are now. If he's looking at you a lot he probably does like you though.

Try talking to him more and start touching him more. By that I mean hugging, letting your arms brush up against his, etc. See how he reacts. If he runs away screaming, then he's not into you like that AND he's a jerk. If he doesn't seem to mind or returns the gestures he probably likes you. Good luck!