uh... Help ? :s

[stfu.cuppycake]

I think my boyfriend of 4 months is annoyed by me ?. He sometimes ignore me... Its really bothering me. He said sorry, that sometimes he's busy. But, he doesn't ignore his friends. (most of his friends are female.). Yeah, I mean I trust him, but you still can't get rid of that uncomfortable feeling. I know he loves me, everytime I try breaking up with him he begs me not to. I told him we hardly talk anymore... I'm either sleeping & playing xbox, (I hardly go out anymore because I lost two of my best friends recently.) & He's either sleeping, out his family, out with his friends & playing xbox too, again he said he's sorry that he'll try making time for me. Anyway, I don't know what to do. Is he annoyed ? (I don't text/inbox him more than once, I don't want to be needy.), does he need space ? Is he losing feelings for me ? Thank you in advance (y).

[Angel]

Is he ignoring you or is he honestly busy? You should remind him to keep his promise and to create more time for you. It's one thing if he's too busy to meet up very often, but it's another to stop talking altogether. If he's not putting in any effort into your relationship, it's unfair for him to ask you to stay. You need to talk to him and figure out what's going on. Those are questions we cannot answer for you.

[Nicole!]

He may just honestly be busy. People can't text every second of every day. It may just be his personality to be laid-back and not clingy.
Do you two go on any dates at all? If not, see if you can plan something for upcoming weekends to spend some time together, that may help.
I also agree with Angel, if he isn't putting any effort in then its unfair for you to stay.

[Chris.]

I cant answer your questions because I simply don't know - and none of us know accept for him. It sounds like he may be growing apart from you - and then when you says its over he comes back to just have someone to lean on.

I'm not a physic - nor should you think I am - but from my experiences, I wouldn't doubt if the relationship fails within 2 months. Theres no communication, hes seeming to back away, you seem to be threatening him with the relationship, and the relationships seems like a friendship at this point.

I'm not saying dump him - but I would communicate with him and see whats going on. If you aren't satisfied with the answer than you need to do what you need to do to be Happy and in a healthy situation.



Best wishes,
Chris

[stfu.cuppycake]

Thank you so much guys ! I talked to him about it, about how I felt. Well, he said sorry about everything. He'll make time for me, talk to me more & go out more. He also told me he doesn't want to lose me. We're going out on a date next weekend I really appreciate your advices <3.

[PSY]

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