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Genuine love now, not a crush or anything of that sort. :P
I'm just curious as to what everone else thinks/has experienced. I mean, I've been in what I think is love, but is there something even more after that? I doubt it, as I don't think it's possible to 'love' somebody more than I did, but who knows. I'm an open like that! Anyway, vote away people. ![]() It's an amazing feeling. EDIT: Whilst I'm not 100% sure about that, I am sure that I'm yet to meet 'the one'. I just know it somehow.
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January 10th 2012, 07:16 AM
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January 10th 2012, 10:16 AM
I'm in love at the moment... but it is a different kind of love to my first love.
My first love was a very intense and abusive relationship, so now being with someone who I genuinely love and genuinely loves me scares the hell out of me, because I know how quickly something that starts out all 'lovely' can end up so horrifically. |
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January 10th 2012, 10:29 AM
I'm not in love. I've had crushes where my heart has fluttered, but nothing spectacular.
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January 10th 2012, 12:11 PM
I thought I was but then the prick cheated on me....</3
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January 10th 2012, 12:31 PM
I am in love now, I can't really describe the feeling
Hopefully everything works itself out in the end because I want to be with him for a long, long time. ![]() The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It is a very mean and nasty place and it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't how hard you hit; it's about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. How much you can take, and keep moving forward. PM me if you need to talk about ANYTHING. ![]() |
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January 10th 2012, 12:56 PM
I thought I was in love with my ex, but looking back on it now I don't think I ever was.
I am in love with my current boyfriend though. It is an amazing feeling
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January 10th 2012, 01:51 PM
To be completely honest with you, I think a crush can be "genuine love". Sure felt pretty genuine to me...
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January 10th 2012, 02:32 PM
I thought I was in love before, but looking back, I was foolish because they didn't treat me too well.
Now I'm really truly in love. My feelings for him are stronger than any I've ever felt before, and it feels amazing. Though you may sleep through half the day, I know I'm in your heart even as you snore away. I love my big sleepy bear.![]() No great artist ever sees things as they really are. If he did, he would cease to be an artist. -Oscar Wilde Buddy since 12/25/11 Self Expressions mod since 4/23/12 Helplink mentor since 5/9/12 |
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January 10th 2012, 04:36 PM
I answered YES! And now, it's just not a crush and neither was the last time. I've only been in love twice. First, with my ex whom I dated for two years. And, with my current boyfriend who I'm going on 3 years with.
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Re: Have you ever been in love? -
January 10th 2012, 04:54 PM
I answered yes.
Like a lot of people have said, I think its possible to be in love more than once with various degrees of intensity? Love is what it means to you, there's no sort of linear scale where only certain things qualify? Personally I believe I have been in love twice, my first love was my first boyfriend and, looking back, I feel like I was in love because it was the first time I had been in a relationship which was honest and wonderful and made me very happy. Also he was my first, in almost every sense of the word which (to me) will always mean a lot. Since then I have had 'crushes' but I hadn't been in love until I met my current girlfriend who is the most wonderful person in my life and who I believe I will spend the rest of my life with. It's an entirely different kind of love to my first boyfriend but I wouldn't say that either of them were more 'real' or more 'powerful', they were both important in their own ways. I hope this is what you were looking for :] You are the one, the one who lies next to me, Whispers "hello, I missed you quite terribly" ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ |
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January 10th 2012, 05:30 PM
Yes - and for me it turned out to be a bit of a double-edged sword. There's always some regret that things didn't work out, but as they say it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
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January 10th 2012, 11:37 PM
Was in love - but got my heart broken. It happens.
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January 11th 2012, 02:44 AM
I've never been in love. I've had pretty strong feelings for a guy in my life but I wouldn't say that it was love.
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January 11th 2012, 08:47 PM
Yes, I am right now! He is the sweetest guy i have ever known! I always get butterflies in my stomach whenever I am with him and when he says "I love you" I smile nonstop and the butterflies double their speed.
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January 11th 2012, 09:26 PM
Yes I have. And I know that because when he split up with me, I could literally feel my heart breaking and I couldn't breathe. I mean, I knew beforehand, but I'd never experienced such painful feelings in my entire life.
The love I have for my current boyfriend is different, but a lot stronger. We completely understand each other. ![]() When your feet are made of stone And you're convinced that you're all alone Look at the stars, instead of the dark You'll find your heart shines like the sun |
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January 11th 2012, 09:39 PM
I think I am. I'm a skeptic by nature, and I thought I was in love once before, but as it turned out, I really wasn't. So let's just say... I probably am.
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January 11th 2012, 09:47 PM
Yes, I have. Like Charlie, I'm currently in love. : )
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January 12th 2012, 01:14 AM
Yes.
I thought I was when I was fourteen, and again when I was sixteen, but once you've experienced what it really is, you know the times you thought you were were ridiculous. I fell in love first properly at eighteen, in my first long-term, serious relationship. I fell in love again at nineteen with my current boyfriend, and this time is more intense than the last. I personally think that if you're not sure if you're in love, then you're not. When you are, you know. Unmistakeably. Don't take life too seriously; no one gets out alive anyway. Reach for the stars so if you fall you land on a cloud ~ Kanye West Mistakes are minimized by experience and experience is maximised by mistakes. |
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January 13th 2012, 05:53 PM
Not sure at the moment ... as much as I wish I was, I don't think "love" is the right word ...
I was in love with my ex. We had only known each other less than a week when we first kissed and then when he finally asked me out a month later I already wanted to tell him I loved him (I held back though!) When we parted for summer I bawled my eyes out. I had two miserable summers without him. I fancied a guy since though, and whenever I was around him I got a fluttery tummy ... and whenever our mutual friend suggested to me that this guy was interested, my heart thumped. Though now that has passed ... I guess that was a crush. What me and my current boyfriend have is really good, but different to what me and my ex had ... I guess we'll have to see what happens further down the line. ![]() Sometimes it's better to forget how you feel and remember what you deserve S. M ... still in my heart, forever |
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January 13th 2012, 10:02 PM
No. I've been strongly infatuated with people in the past, and I thought that was love. Oh goodness, I was so wrong, since they didn't even want anything to do with me.
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January 13th 2012, 11:01 PM
I loved my ex.
I could never really tell whether he loved me or not, though. And so I ended it. Which I regret. But I still tend to stick up for him and yell at people for calling him a prick, haha. I'm a confusing person. -_- ![]() It takes a long time to grow an old friend. - John Leonard |
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January 13th 2012, 11:10 PM
I'm currently in love with my best friend, if only she felt the same... :\
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January 14th 2012, 03:33 AM
I personally believe that you can only be in love if the other person loves you back. So no I've never been in love.
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January 16th 2012, 02:28 AM
Even though he didn't feel the same, as I found out, because he was cheating and lying, I still believe I was in love. It was amazing, when I was blissfully blind, anyways.
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January 16th 2012, 02:59 AM
I thought I was in love twice.. turns out I lied to myself and them.
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January 16th 2012, 08:15 PM
I think I was in love with a guy this one time. But it wasn't particularly healthy because I was really dependent on him. It was either one extreme or the other: that amazing feeling, or the feeling that it was all going wrong and it was the end of the world. I don't love him anymore. In a way, I want to believe that I didn't love him at all, because I don't want my next experience to be as clingy and unhappy as that. Maybe it was just an obsessive crush. I don't know.
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January 16th 2012, 08:27 PM
Once a few years ago there was this guy that was the center of my whole world! Everything I said or did had to do with him. We had an odd relationship I can't even begin to explain but anyways I thought it was true love. Turns out I was completely wrong it was more like obsession and desperation. I am now engaged and I truly am in love. I can't imagine my life without him
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January 17th 2012, 07:15 PM
Believe it or not, even I have found love for a good few months. It took 3 months for me to warm up to her, but when I did, I was never happier. Didn't last nearly as long as I thought it would, though.
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January 17th 2012, 07:35 PM
I convinced myself I was in Love with a boy when i was 15, he was my beast friend, i spent every day with him and wow i really did have so many feelings for him. I don't know if it was genuine love, maybe if something had happened then those feelings would of developed, but they didn't. When I really am in love, i think I'll know
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January 20th 2012, 06:10 PM
Love is a huge step in a relationship. It's not to be taken lightly, and when you really are in love with someone, you will know. It is something that happens seemingly unexpectedly, but when it does, you can look back and see it happen.
Last night, I was talking to my girlfriend of three months and I felt something change. I felt it. It was the most powerful thing I've ever felt and immediately I knew that this was it, there was no changing it. I love her and that won't change, even when she goes away to college at the end of this summer, it won't change. I love her. |
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January 20th 2012, 06:45 PM
Never. I don't really do close relationships. I think it'd be nice to try sometime, but she'd need to be very special.
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