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Uhh Confused? -
January 12th 2012, 03:52 AM
Ok, I recently moved states. I left the guy I love even though he didnt love me back(Or he says he didnt). When I got here, you can understand that I was pissed off at the world and depressed. I never even imagened falling in love with anybody else and I convinced myself I would move back next year and I would somehow make him fall in love with me.. (stupid I know). Anyway i'm a girl and I play for the basketball team, I have never, ever, ever, ever, EVER, found another girl attractive, until I meet this one. Now, i'm pretty sure i'm not a lesbain, considering I love a guy and I want nothing else but to just be with him. She's bisexual and I have no idea what she thinks of me, and honestly I still think of us as nothing more then friends. I just find her attractive, I have nothing against lesbians I just dont really want to be one. Uhh so as you can see i'm REALLY confused and I just dont know if i'm BI, or just curious.. I also find another GUY attractive, I just dont want to let the one I left. I know I really just need to move on from him, but honestly have no idea how.. Ughh help me out.
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January 12th 2012, 03:58 AM
Cory,
It's perfectly natural AND normal to find others of the same sex attractive. That doesn't mean you're a lesbian OR bisexual. I'm perfectly straight, but can't help finding other girls attractive. It's just within our nature to be curious of the same sex. That doesn't mean you've turned into a lesbian all of a sudden.   I may wear the glass slippers; But my hero wears combat boots <3 I love you, Lieutenant HelpLink Mentor 6/13/2011 Pregnancy & Childcare Moderator 11/26/2011 Fashion & Style Moderator 12/28/2011 Social Groups Moderator 12/28/2011 |
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January 12th 2012, 03:58 AM
We all have problems with who we are. Since you have never been in a relationship with a girl or never experimented or anything like that you are Curious. But if you did date a girl (which is ok - it doesn't make you lesbian since you like males), then you could be considered bi.
I cant really tell you who you are - or who you are attracted to. The only thing I can say is experiment and see if you are in fact attracted (and willing to act on the attraction) to females. If you are, and you decide to act on the feelings then go ahead! Nothings wrong with deciding who you are. Best wishes, Chris Chris Jackson
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