Girls..

[namehere1]

So my boyfriend and I have been datin a little over 4months now. He's a singer and right whenever we first started datin everyone started to notice him. Yeahh we've had problems with other girls but we're done with that now. It seems like recently there has been more girls than ever flirtin with him. From what's happened in the past with the other girls I don't like this. I'm trustin him, that's not my problem. I just don't know what to do about these girls. There's TOO many. It seems like once one goes away there's another. Any advice??

[Aletheia*]

Let's face it: Your boyfriend's a singer, and having other girls around is something you're going to have to get used too. You trust him, right? So, there is nothing to freak out over. I'm sensing that you really don't trust him, which is why you're struggling with this right now. Just because a girl flirts doesn't mean she or your boyfriend is going to act on it. It's in our nature to flirt, and sometimes we really can't help ourselves. You can't stop girls from being around your boyfriend, especially if he's in a band (or a musician in general). Girls are everywhere, and so are guys. We just can't stop them from coming around.

[Chris.]

I agree with Shannon. When you are a singer or do something that brings attention - then you will have alot of girls (and anyone to be honest) all over him. As a girlfriend you just have to accept that - and trust him to not do anything. Why do people sing? To share there talent - and to maybe go somewhere with it. Well when you share something - it brings attention. If he is really good at singing - this is just the start. So start to accept it now and just trust him to be wise and not do anything stupid. Trust is a very big part of relationships - and sometimes we have to trust our boyfriends/girlfriends more than we really want to but thats just something we have to do to make the relationships survive and grow.




Best wishes,
Chris

[thebigmole]

I have a friend who is a singer as well. His girlfriend is away at college, I mean in another state away. And pretty much every girl that crosses his path flirts with him (in fact the reason we are such good friends is because I don't flirt with him). And having hung out with his girlfriend I know it bothers her, but she trusts him and he's a good guy so nothing ever happens they just try to ignore it. So as long as you trust your guy, try your hardest to ignore the girls.

[stfu.cuppycake]

Hey, I'm feel for you. My boyfriend's a football player & he does this thing wrestling or something. Haha. Anyway, all the girls are all over him, prettier girls than me... We've had problems about it, we go to a different high school. & all these girls just flirts with him non stop. I know you can't stop that uncomfortable feeling you get. You just have to trust him, talk to him about how you feel. He might tell some girls to just back off a little bit, because well. He has a girlfriend. If you trust your boyfriend, then everything's fine. Oh & think it through, he's with you. Not them. Hope I helped x.

[namehere1]

Yeah I do trust he won't go behind my back but it's what he'll think of them. Sinve we aren't sexually active.
Thanks for the input. All I can do is trust him and maybe step in at times

[Revolution]

Musicians are hot. That's the sad fact of the day, for us dating them. There have been three or four girls who have liked my boyfriend over the course of our relationship, some of which were quite pushy and quite mean to me. In the end, you just have to trust him. If he hasn't cheated on you before, he'd have no reason to start.

[FillingWithHope]

Just stay strong through this. It probably will be hard to get used to but as long as you have trust and faith in him that is all that matters. He is a singer, girls will be over him all the time just know that your the girl for him.

[leavemealone]

Talk to your boyfriend more about it, and have him assure you that they're just trying to get in his pants and nothing more. And I would be feeling the same exact way as you are right now, I wouldn't be able to take all those girls throwing themselves at my boyfriend. Talk to your boyfriend though and straighten this out, it'll make you feel much better