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How do I flirt with her? -
January 14th 2012, 01:35 PM
Flirting with guys is easy, no problems there. But girls? Shit. I'm stuck. How the hell do you let on that your interested without fucking everything up and looking like an idiot?
There is this girl, and she is soooo beautiful. I know she is like me, attracted to the soul, the personality of a person, and that means all genders. I just.. fuck I dont know how to flirt with her. It's driving me mental! Gahhhh please help haha "Do not regret anything. Every choice, fuck up, spoken word, experience and emotion has brought you to this very moment. It has shaped exactly who you are. Do not regret who you are. You are unique. No one in the world is like you. In this sense, we are alone. Yet for this very reason, we all have one thing in common. Don't waste who you are, be everything you can be. You can achieve your dreams, you just have to genuinely try."
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January 14th 2012, 02:38 PM
I'm sure some of the bi/lesbian people can give you better advice from their perspective, but girls really are different. You can't wait for them to come to you. Make and hold eye contact, ask a lot of questions about their feelings and things like that and start out with a non-threatening date like going for coffee and then a small inexpensive present of something you know she likes. Then slowly gage her feelings on how she feels about you.
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January 14th 2012, 03:58 PM
How do you like to be flirted with from either sex? Stephen is right; you need to treat a girl a lot differently than you would a guy. But, not too much. Just think about how you'd like someone to flirt with you, and go from there.
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Re: How do I flirt with her? -
January 15th 2012, 01:39 PM
Well,im not bi but I have had a girl try to talk to me once and it made me flattered haha well she got one of my closest friends to ask me about her and she told my friend that I was soooo gorgeous and my friend told me and I was like aww thanks and then she would say hey to me alot and stare and then asked for my number through my friend but she found out I wasn't into girls like that but anyway I hoped this helped
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January 15th 2012, 05:46 PM
Mmmk. Time for a lesbian answer
 Flirting with girls is probably the most hit-and-miss thing you can learn how to do. Like a lot of people seem to be saying, you know how you like to be flirted with, so try that. Otherwise, just make sure you're really nice to her, pay lots of attention to her, and (if you're both into that), greet her with a hug If that seems to be going somewhere, I'd just tell her that you kinda like her (subtle confession, no omg-i'm-in-love-with-you-let's-go-be-happily-ever-after-now stuff, cuz that'll freak her out) and if she doesn't reject you, suggest a date 
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