Male Advice Preferred: Girls can help too!

[craz33me]

Okay, so I don't know what to do..

I met this one guy at a basketball game and we sat there and talked for awhile. I mean we really had a great conversation. (he's really cute too xD) But, I am soo freakin' shy I didn't ask for his number or anything, and until the other day I didn't know his name. I know it's just a little crush, but... still.

I added him on facebook and he accepted. But I don't know how to start a conversation with him. I'm not good at this sorta thing.
I mean he may not even remember me, but I can't get him out of my head!

So advice anyone? Please.

[leavemealone]

If he responded to your friendship request, then he did remember you AND if he kept talking to you at the basketball game and didn't just ignore you then hes interested. PLUS if hes cuteee then you should REALLY talk to him before some other girl does lol, but really, if he kept conversation with you at a loud basketball game and added you on Facebook, he is either extremely freakishly friendly, or hes pretty interested in you. You never know until you give it a shot just do it; you wont be disappointed.

[craz33me]

He could be friendly, he has over like 1000 friends. Dx

[FillingWithHope]

You will never know until you talk to him. Just make a friendship with him first and see how that goes. Facebook message him saying "Hey, Whats up?" Something simple but not everyday or else he may get annoyed. Then maybe if everything is going good ask him for his number and maybe see if he wants to hang out. Before you hang out though I suggest you build some kind of relaitonship! It is also too early to know if he likes you since you have only had one real conversation but I do believe he does remember you. Good Luck! Give feedback!

[craz33me]

I don't know, I'm super surprised he talked to me in the first place. hah.
I'm not exactly the prettiest girl ever and I'm super shy. So I probably wouldn't have talked to him if he hadn't of said anything. The thing that started it all was my hat.

[leavemealone]

Believe it or not, most guys don't look for looks as their top priority when finding a girl. When they want to pay attention to a girl, they will most likely look at their personality. And if he likes your personality, hes going to like how you look too. Just start up a conversation. It would be weird to friend him on facebook and then never talk to him ever again, right? lol you can do it!

[Chris.]

The best bet is for you to communicate and just send him a message on Facebook. "Hey! ____________". I put that line there because maybe you should enter something that was funny when you guys hangout or say something that was the topic of the night when he was talking to you. Chances are he will respond - but if you don't say anything to him, he probably will just move on, and he seems like he may like you. So just go and talk to him - you don't have much to lose. Sure, you may be shy, but at some point you have to get around that or you will never go anywhere. Take chances. Take risks. Send him a message.



Best wishes,
Chris

[craz33me]

So..
I sent him a message, he hasn't responded..

[Jennifer]

If you were honest and upfront about your feeligns on facebook as you did don't worry and the wrost he can say is hes not interested which i'm sure you could find someone else

[craz33me]

Yeah,
I just messaged him. lol
I didn't tell him anything!

[Shawn K.]

Is this dude at your school? If so, figure a way to run into him. If not, then facebook is your only means of communication. Either way, continuing some part of the "great conversation" you had at the basketball game is a good place to start. And make sure that you give him your number this time.

{edit} BUT NOT ON FACEBOOK, at least not yet..

[craz33me]

Haha, no he doesn't. I'd know him if he went to my school.
I go to a tiny school.