He's lieing and I know it

[Hopeyyy]

So, there is guy. Whom I REALLY like. Like a lot.

He doesn't like me the way I like him. He said he is dating me to make me happy.
He always talk to other girls and flirts and tells them all he loves them. He e en says I'm less then them.
At times it feels like he likes me, but I know it is not true. He said before that he would try to like me.
I broke up with him once and I thought it was the right choice. But no, I wanted him.

What do I do?!

Do I try my best to be happy with him and "love" on hi the best I can so he will start to like me?

Is there another meaning besides him saying he wants to make me "happy" ? I asked him before but its always the same answer or a different topic change.

[Acheron]

This doesn't sound at all like a good relationship. If your boyfriend is telling you that he has to try to like you, that can't be doing much for your self-esteem. Break up with him again, and this time stick with it: you can't make him like you, and there's no sense staying in a relationship with someone that doesn't like you. I get that being without him again is a scary idea, but there will be more guys, some of whom will actually care about you. Promise.

[Squiggly]

From what you have said it doesn`t seem to me like you are in a very good relationship. If the guy liked you he wouldn`t flirt with other girls or insult you or make you feel bad. If he doesn`t like you I know it`s hard but you should break up with him because you can`t make someone like you I know all about that. And you deserve better.

[Aletheia*]

I'd leave. Never settle for someone who has to "force" themselves to like you. That's not how love works, and that's definitely not how relationships work either. He shouldn't have to force himself. He can't help whom he has feelings for, and right now, that isn't you. And, from the sounds of it, he isn't going to end up liking you. End things before you get hurt even worse.

[Chris.]

I agree with Shannon - find someone who will love you just as much as you love them. Don't date someone who is just doing you a 'favor' or anything like that. No, wait to find someone who will treat you in a good way and who will love you. I wouldn't even go on with this relationship because you simply cant make someone love you. If he doesn't care and love you - than its time time find someone who does.

I agree with Shannon - end things before you get hurt even worse.




Best wishes,
Chris