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How can I make it up to him? - January 17th 2012, 12:59 PM

Me and my boyfriend went out the other night, I was drunk, we argued and I hit him.
He says there is too much love and respect in our relationship to let this get in the way, he knows I didn't mean to. I didn't even realise until my hand touched his skin what I was doing. I was just so angry.

But even though he may have forgiven me, I don't know what to do.. I can't forgive myself. Should I just get over it?

I wanna make it up to him, maybe then it'll help me forgive myself. I can't stop thinking about how much it must've hurt him.



   
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Re: How can I make it up to him? - January 17th 2012, 01:49 PM

If he's forgiven you, just let it go. We all do things that we regret at one point or another, and there is no reason to beat yourself up about this. You've talked things through, and he realizes that you didn't mean to do it. Violence should never be resorted to when you're arguing, but again, we all make mistakes. You can't keep beating yourself up about it. Just let it go.











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Re: How can I make it up to him? - January 17th 2012, 04:20 PM

I agree with Shannon, its in the past. I think the best way to make it up to him is to just never do it again. That, and to continue being a good girlfriend to him
Don't worry too much about it, he knows that you were drunk and knows that you didn't mean to. I'm sure you'll begin to forget about it in time.



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Re: How can I make it up to him? - January 17th 2012, 08:44 PM

You don't have to do anything. But if you can't shake it, you could take lesson from another girl and think of something:




   
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Re: How can I make it up to him? - January 17th 2012, 09:26 PM

You shouldn't worry about it. If he says he's over it, don't dwell on it. Just move on and show him that you're not going to do it again.


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