2 guys n me :/

[cuttergirl17]

So I have been dating this guy for 2 months he's 2 years younger than me n is rlly nice n sweet and we rlly like eachother, but now their a new guy also long distance who I rlly rlly like, I fine myself thinking bout him more than the other guy but I like both of them a lot, this new guy is my age n we totally get n understand eachother with all our problems n he asked me out n k wanna say yes but I just don't no what to do...HELP!

[Aletheia*]

Amanda,

Currently, you shouldn't pursue anything with this "new" guy. You have a boyfriend, and while he might be younger than you, age shouldn't play a factor in whether or not you decide to pursue this other guy. If you're unhappy in your relationship, and would like to pursue other things, you should end things with your boyfriend. It isn't fair for him to string him along him if you like someone else. You wouldn't like it much if the situations were reversed. You need to make a decision. Who means more to you? Who do you see yourself being with long-term? If it isn't your boyfriend, end things. If it is, remain friends with this guy, but don't take things any further than that.

[Chris.]

I agree with Shannon.

Never cheat - and so if you want to be with this new guy than you need to talk to your current boyfriend and tell him what is going on. If you do not want to leave your current boyfriend than you need to make that clear to the Long Distance guy.

As Shannon said, you need to make a decision and to pick and STAY with that person. Shannon brought up some good questions that you need to answer for yourself: Who means more to you? Who do you see yourself being with long-term?



Best wishes,
Chris

[Nicole!]

Stick with your boyfriend. Because:
1. You're already together
2. Age shouldn't play a factor
3. You say he's very sweet
Or go for the new guy because:
1. You think about him a lot
2. You understand each other
3. You have feelings for him

So there are reasons to go with either one, but it is up to you to decide. You cannot have both though, if you agree to the date then you need to end things with your boyfriend. Who do you think things could work out better with?