3/1 how do i choose

[Megg-Killed-The-Prom-King]

So there are these 3 guys all telling me they "love" me.
And i kinda like all three of them.

It kind of sounds good, but 2 of them are my bestfriends (ex)boyfriends.

1 of them keeps asking me too see my boobs and wont stop trying to camm with me,
the 2nd one wont stop trying to cam with me on msn and skype
and the 3rd wont stopp commenting on my status's and pics on facebook. And he wont stop making statuses about me, saying im his everything.

I Like that there all into me, but i hate it.

What should i do, i dont want to hurt any of them because were all good friends, but i dont want to keep going like this

What do i do? because im WAY to young for love

[TheBabyEater]

Personally, I would choose neither of them. And here's why:

1: They "love" you. I put that in quotations for a reason, first of all, I doubt they REALLY love you. Just doesn't seem like it to me. Maybe I'm wrong, but you never know. They know you, but they don't know you from a relationship, loving standpoint.

2: They "love" you. You've already admitted you don't love them, and that you're not ready for it. That will be a HUGE problem, dating someone that already "loves" you.

3: You'll always be wondering if you chose the right one.

4: You WILL upset the other ones that love you, and you've already admitted that you want to keep them all as friends. That's not going to happen. Perhaps you can all be good friends in the end, but at your age thats not going to happen any time soon. Like I said, perhaps I'm wrong. I hope I am

5: It doesn't sound like ANY of them are real great guys. One wants to see your boobs, obviously only in it for the sex. Two wants to cam a little too bad, also probably in it for sex. And the third seems a little bit too clingy for you.


So what do you do? Tell them ALL to back off a bit. Tell them you're not going to be with them, that you are a strong woman with a backbone, and you will not give into their petty delights. Find a man that wants to be with YOU, not your body.

[Jaguar]

Ah, so many boys. So little time.

[Aletheia*]

I couldn't have said it better than Marissa.

Love. I hate when this word gets thrown around like this. They could either:
A. Really love you.
B. Telling you they love you just to get what they want (They're boys. What else could they want, right?)
C. Just telling you I love you for the Hell of it.

Either way, you said it yourself. You aren't ready for love. Choosing any of them wouldn't be a good, because:
A. You don't really love them.
B. You'd be giving them what they want by choosing one of them.
C. You'd be stringing them along if you don't "love" them.

To me, love is built over time. Not just something that "happens". And, over time, I mean when you're in a relationship with that person, you get to know them and you learn to love them. I almost always hear of cases like this where they thought they loved someone, but realized it was just lust. They are often confused for each other all the time. I couldn't tell my current boyfriend I loved him until 6 months into our relationship (he did the same) because I didn't know if I love him or not. I knew I liked him, and loved being in a relationship with him. But, it took me time to realize I loved him.

I'd be neither. Not only are they ex's of some of your best friends, but I doubt they truly love you. And, you aren't ready. Just tell them truth.

[Nicole!]

Originally Posted by Megg-Killed-The-Prom-King

1 of them keeps asking me too see my boobs and wont stop trying to camm with me,

I wouldn't go for him. It doesn't sound like he actually loves you, he just wants you to do things for him. I would just stop talking to him altogether, you deserve more respect than this.

Originally Posted by Megg-Killed-The-Prom-King

the 2nd one wont stop trying to cam with me on msn and skype

Do you know what kind of thing he is looking for? If he is like the 1st guy, then don't go for him either. Just ignore him.

Originally Posted by Megg-Killed-The-Prom-King

and the 3rd wont stopp commenting on my status's and pics on facebook. And he wont stop making statuses about me, saying im his everything.

He sounds like a sweet guy, but sounds too clingy. You should talk to him about this and tell him its a bit too much, and he needs to back off some.

Originally Posted by Megg-Killed-The-Prom-King

What should i do, i dont want to hurt any of them because were all good friends, but i dont want to keep going like this

What do i do? because im WAY to young for love

Just be polite and let them know you are flattered, but just can't see yourself with them. No matter what you say, it will probably hurt them. But its something that needs to be done if it is bothering you. Truth is, they may love you sure, but they probably aren't in love with you.
Really the choice is yours. But this is just my opinion