Cant make up my mind

[R_DJepson]

Im Rhys, im a year 11 pupil and recently ive noticed that one of the year 9 girl's in my school is good looking, only problem is shes my best friends sister, aand lately shes all i can think about.
I know that he doesnt like his sister, in fact he frequently makes jokes about her and the rest of her friends, and because of this me and her dont really get the chance to talk at all, i know if he knew how i felt about his sister he would treat me differently (possibly for the worst).
So would someone please help me on what io should do? Thanks.

[Eljoria]

Hello Rhys, I have been in exactly same situation as you are in right now. I suggest you to find a way to talk with her because you would never know for the truth if you never have communicated with her, maybe try to find a way to communicate with her without your bestfriend being there. I did that and it kind of worked but I suggest you to talk with her, few times a week or something to keep things cool.

But if you continue to like her, still, then you should drop some hints to your bestfriend because normally bestfriends should be acceptable for the situation because if it turns out all wrong, please don't blame yourself because that's how you feel about her, right? No one can control their emotions.

Hope I helped. PM if you need.

(I'll be away in 2 days for a week but I'll try my best to respond whenever possible but really hope I've helped.)xx

[PSY]

Hello, and welcome to TeenHelp!

I would talk to your friend. Maybe you could bring up the idea in a joking manner? "Oh man, your sister is sooo hot! Is she single? Be a friend and hook me up - what's her number?!" If you say it in a way that sounds overly energetic (meaning it could either be seen as genuine and excited, or sarcastic and exaggerated), you can observe your friend's reaction and decide whether or not his sister falls into the "off limits" category (along with most ex-girlfriends and moms). If she's off limits, then you need to let this one go. Trust me, you'll find someone else. =)

[Nicole!]

Most siblings don't like each other much and joke around about them, but it doesn't mean they don't still love them. I would talk to your friend about this too and just see how he feels about it. Remember that your friendship with him is more important than a could-be relationship, so if he says no then its best to just let it go and find someone else.