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Really just bringing me down. - January 19th 2012, 11:19 PM

I know my boyfriends going to meet female friends in Uni..but literally every two days there's 3 new girls that have been added to his facebook. For every ten people that are added, maybe two would be guys. He says they all add him. But I dont know..like why do soooo many add him? Is this weird?


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Re: Really just bringing me down. - January 20th 2012, 12:05 AM

Well he could just be a flirt and/or maybe girls know him or know of him and add him...is his profile public?? They might look at his pictures and add him b/c he's cute and is your relationship public on Facebook, if not then make it public if you HAVE to but don't worry if he says you have nothing to worry about then don't but always have a plan B and hope this helped!!!!
   
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Re: Really just bringing me down. - January 20th 2012, 01:23 AM

I remember my freshman year of college. It seemed like female students were MUCH more eager to socialize at first - they really made an effort to get potential friends' contact information during welcome week. That could explain why 80% of his new friends are women. With time, as your boyfriend develops closer connections with other male students, this percentage may change.

That's only one part of the issue, though. So what if a bunch of women are adding your boyfriend on Facebook... or so what if your boyfriend is adding a bunch of women on Facebook? Who cares who initiates the invitation to be Facebook friends? The bottom-line is this: do you trust your boyfriend to do the right thing, regardless of what these women may or may not do? If so, then don't let this bother you! =)




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Re: Really just bringing me down. - January 20th 2012, 02:35 AM

I couldn't have said it better than Robin. Do you trust your boyfriend? If so, then who cares what goes on on Facebook. It's just Facebook. It doesn't mean he's going to leave you for any of the girls he's met since beginning uni. If you don't trust your boyfriend, it might be time to reevaluate what you want from the relationship and have a serious talk with him.











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