Any Advice on this?

[Brillyx]

Over the last few months of being a freshman I had a crush on this one girl, who I thought had a crush on me. Well turns out she led me on a bit and I got rejected because she is in love with this other kid. So I told her "Oh no problem, thats fine" and proceeded to stop flirting with her. Well I dont think she expected me to withdraw so easily because she still flirted with me. Once again, I fell for it, and got rejected a SECOND time... I was a dumb *** back then, didn't know any better.

Well I haven't talked to her since then but she still looks at me whatever chance she can get. Even though I know this doesn't technically mean she likes me it pisses me off. Anyone who has seen someone stare at you out of the corner of your eye knows this feeling. I tried sending her a message over facebook saying we should just forget about the past and be friends, that I dont like her anymore, and guess what? She didn't even care to give me a response back. Like who the hell does that?

I try making conversation with her and she just gives me one or two word answers back. Just today I tried telling her a joke (everyone always laughs their asses off when I say something funny) and she just gives me this pissy look and says "ok...". Like what the hell? Now normally I dont give a damn if someone doesn't like me. It's not like I have to have every single person in the school like me. But she can't even have the common courtesy to try and be friends. I was rejected by two other girls, and both of them I stayed friends with. But not with this girl, maybe it's the way I try talking to her, like she thinks I'm hitting on her or something, but it pisses me off that she can't even bury the hatchet. Then everyone always says how nice and adorable she is. Bull****! Anyone got any advice for this problem?
21 hours ago - 1 week left to answer.

[Nicole!]

If she doesn't want to be friends and isn't putting any effort while you are, then its time to just let go and stop talking to her.
It sounds me like she just wanted your attention when you liked her, but knows it was wrong to lead you on. You did the right thing by sending her that message, and it could be that she just hasn't been online to answer it.
For now, I would just stop talking to her and see if she comes to you.

[PSY]

She's a tease, and you called her out on it (by telling her to let the past go and focus on just being friends). It's okay for HER to reject YOU, but it's not okay for YOU to reject HER. That takes away her power and makes her look bad if she keeps pursuing you (because she supposedly "loves" someone else). There are really only two ways for someone like her to handle a situation like that: she can either ignore you, or treat you like crap. Of course, a mature, respectful girl would just accept the offer of friendship and work with that... but that's not who this girl is. If she can't have what she wants - control/influence over you - then she's not going to want anything to do with you.

[Aletheia*]

I agree with the others.

It's time to move on from this girl completely, friendship or otherwise. She sounds like she's continuing to play you even though you've already told her that you don't like her anymore. If she isn't making an effort to be your friend, then she isn't going to be worth your time to continue trying when she isn't making an effort.

[Shawn K.]

Originally Posted by PSY

She's a tease, and you called her out on it (by telling her to let the past go and focus on just being friends). It's okay for HER to reject YOU, but it's not okay for YOU to reject HER. That takes away her power and makes her look bad if she keeps pursuing you (because she supposedly "loves" someone else). There are really only two ways for someone like her to handle a situation like that: she can either ignore you, or treat you like crap. Of course, a mature, respectful girl would just accept the offer of friendship and work with that... but that's not who this girl is. If she can't have what she wants - control/influence over you - then she's not going to want anything to do with you.

EXACTLY!!! Drop her like yesterday's "draws."

[Brillyx]

Thank you all for the support, and yes, I agree with each and everyone of your posts. She knows I am trying to make amends and be friends, she just doesn't want it to work that way. I am friends with everyone of her friends, so to be honest, she could suffer them hanging out with me. Perhaps when she see's me in a relationship with another girl she will come to her senses, but like you all said, if she doesn't feel like putting forth the effort to be mature about this, then I will just ignore her.

-Brillyx.