i need HIM, but i also love the other guy

[iwannabeme]

i have been with my bf since september 13 th 2011 ... but before we broke up twice and i dated a guy named agel in between break ups. i love angel so much yes im 14 but he knew me.so well he KNOWS ME SO WELL he always makes me happy amd never jidges me bit on the other hand my boyfriend i love him too..
he makes me happy most of the time ots just he does deep with me we made ALOT of promises to each other and theyre promises like i promise well be together forwver and we prpmise on our lives and i never break a promise but i regtet mking that promise because im never going tget over my ex angel he sid he made a mistake by breaking up woth mehe said that he did it because a friend told him i had a back up guy and that i didnt love him and he broke upwith me because he disnt deserve it bt he found out that that friend didnt like me and angel felt bad i really miss him bt i cant get myself to leave my boyfriend what do i do????

[PSY]

Hey there! Two things:

1. A lot of people are going to be upset about your use of the word "love." It's not possible to completely and truly love two people at the same time - not in the romantic sense, anyway. If you claim you "love" two people, then I'd have to say you don't really love either of them. Sorry.

2. You're right - 14 is way too young to make promises about being together "forever." You and your current boyfriend will change drastically over the next couple of years. You may grow together, or you may grow apart. There's no way to know, unfortunately, and that's why making promises of this nature isn't the wisest thing to do. With that being said, there's nothing wrong with breaking this "promise," because it never could have been made to begin with.

My advice? Take a break from dating. There's no reason to stay with your current boyfriend if you don't love him and aren't over your ex-boyfriend. Maybe something will work out in the future with one of these boys... but for now, you need to spend some time reflecting upon everything you've learned, so that you can avoid complications like these in the future.