Party Problems

[_Ellie_]

I was at a party (no one had been drinking or doing drugs) and I had been looking at this guy for a while. I was dancing with my friends and all of the sudden I noticed that he was behind me and he put his hands on me so I kinda started dancing on him (guess that would be called grinding) and things got kind of intense. I had never met him or seen him before and we didn't talk. I do know that he is at least a year older than me. Plus he was really cute. Was what I did slutty or promiscuous in any way? I normally don't do stuff like that and I don't know what I was thinking.

[Aletheia*]

This kind of thing happens all the time; people that go to bars and clubs often dance with people they've never met, or never even spoken too. It doesn't mean you wanted to hook up with him. So no, it wasn't slutty or promiscuous in any way.

[Chris.]

I personally don't think that was slutty one bit. When you are dancing - you are just having a good time and there is no harm in dancing or grinding with random guys.

Now, if you were making out with alot of random guys, that would be a different story - but you weren't, you were just having a good time. No harm in dancing with random people.