Hard to get?

[heythere17]

This guy I really like has been showing me some signs that he might be into me. But recently, I realized that there are few or none signs coming my way when I look at and flirt with him more. I was wondering:

Does this mean that he likes it when girls play hard to get? Because I've noticed that when I just live my life like he's barely there, he tends to flirt with me more and stare at me more. But when I start to show interest back, it's like I barely exist. Please help if you can.

[Nicole!]

We cannot really give you an accurate answer on this one. Sure, he could like girls who are hard to get, but it could also be that he isn't noticing that he's sending any signs. Another possibility is when you start to look at him more he gets embarrassed and knows you caught him.
You could always talk to him about it if you're feeling if you're brave.

[Chris.]

I agree with Melody.

But from a point of view from a boy - I personally LOVE girls who play hard to get. I get attracted to it for some reason - and that may or may not be the case with him.

If you feel like things have changed, and you want it back to when he was flirting with you, then you can either communicate and ask him whats going on, or you can stop flirting with him and wait for him to come to you first (and hopefully things will change).



Best wishes,
Chris